
Sagittarius Sign Dates & Traits
THE ARCHER | NOV 22 – DEC 21
ADVENTUROUS, CREATIVE, STRONG WILLED
Element: Fire
Polarity: Positive
Quality: Mutable
Ruling Planet: Jupiter
Ruling House: Ninth
Spirit Color: Light Blue
Lucky Gem: Topaz
Flower: Carnations & crocuses
Top Love Matches: Aries
Sagittarius Zodiac Sign
Independent and strong-willed, Sagittarius personalities are all about going off the beaten path. Sagittarius isn’t afraid to step away from the pack, and is a natural born leader who goes after what he or she wants, regardless of what other people think. Sagittarius is a born adventurer, and loves solo travel and exploration. Sagittarius also loves exploring the inner workings of their minds, and love stretching their horizons through a good book or movie.
Sagittarius is open-hearted, generous, and big-spirited, but Sagittarius is always truthful. Because of this, they may hurt others’ feelings, or may be called out for not having tact or empathy. The latter is not true. With their keen imagination, Sagittarius is adept at putting themselves in another person’s shoes—that’s why so many Sagittarius are successful actors—but they do not feel the need to beat around the bush or lie. You can trust a Sagittarius to tell you what they really think. You can also trust a Sagittarius, period. Unlike other signs, they won’t spill any secrets.
In bed and in relationships, Sags are adventurous and giving, able to adeptly try new things or break down barriers. In bed, Sags love trying new positions, new toys, and making everything an adventure. Yes to the lights on; yes to lovemaking outside. In relationships, Sags will be honest and true to themselves, and that may mean that they will move on from a relationship. If it’s not working, it’s not working, and a Sagittarius won’t stay for the sake of another person’s feelings. A Sagittarius will always be honest and in check with their emotions, and a Sagittarius will not engage in emotional blackmail.
Sagittarius is a steadfast friend and a creative thinker; a great person to have on a work team, as they have infectious energy and enthusiasm. They aren’t looking for constant feedback, and can take a project and run with it. A Sag can also be an adept entrepreneur or CEO. A Sagittarius is smart, capable, and a true trailblazer.
Sagittarius’ Motto
“Towering genius disdains a beaten path.”
Sagittarius are amazing! Their name says it all:
S for seductive
A for adventurous
G for grateful
I for intelligent
T for trailblazing
T for tenacious adept
A for adept
R for responsible
I for idealistic
U for unparalled
S for sophisticated
Sagittarius Greatest Gifts
Sagittarius is adept at blazing their own paths, and can always go it alone. Sagittarius doesn’t need a roadmap, and can easily conceptualize ideas and opportunities that others may not easily “see.” Sagittarius doesn’t need permission or approval, and has a strong sense of self that allows them to always feel sure-footed, even where others may be unsure or insecure.
Sagittarius Greatest Challenges
Sagittarius can sometimes be far too blunt, and put their own needs above others. You don’t need to veer from your values, but sometimes, a white lie saves all. It can also be helpful to be part of the pack now and then. Sagittarius is so good at doing things independently, but sometimes it can be faster, smarter, and more fun to do things as part of a group.
Sagittarius Secret Weapon
Their independence. Sags don’t need other people’s approval, opinions, or advice. A Sag loves hanging out with herself, and feels like doing things solo can only help her connect more to her deepest self. Sagittarius uses solo time as a much-needed reboot. While an hour stuck in traffic during a car commute could be untenable to anyone else, to a Sag it’s a form of self care.
The 5 Top Reasons to Love Being a Sagittarius
- Super at home with the world, you’re happy with a passport and a backpack — what else do you need?
- Your mind is an endless labyrinth; you love getting to know yourself and what makes you tick.
- A born leader, you never worry about what people think. Your ideas are unique, and you don’t second-guess yourself.
- You have a creative vision that’s on point, and appreciate museums, books, and culture, and pretty effortlessly stay on top—or are involved—with the latest going on in the arts world.
- You’re honest. People trust you, respect you, and you never get caught in a web of gossip or lies. You know that anyone could look through the text chains on your phone and you would be in the clear.
Classic (Famous) Sagittarius
Nicki Minaj, Taylor Swift, Miley Cyrus, Brad Pitt, Rita Ora, Chrissy Teigen, Jay-Z, Vanessa Hudgens
Sagittarius Friend Compatibility
Sagittarius Friendship Style
Sagittarius is loyal, loving, and the type of person you can feel has your back even if you’ve only known them for 24 hours. That said, a Sagittarius isn’t interested in your drama, and doesn’t have a lot of patience for friends who say one thing and do another. A Sagittarius is incredibly loyal, but won’t hesitate to let you know if they see any faults or anything they feel you could be doing better. A Sagittarius collects friends, but may not be the best at keeping up. They like friendships IRL and in real time; they are great at reconnecting with after a decade or two lapse, and don’t worry about the small things. In their mind, a long conversation is far better than a birthday card.
Best Friend Match for Sagittarius: Aquarius
This fire sign and air sign can be a great match. Both signs are adventurous, independent, and march to the beat of your own drums. Neither sign is very concerned with the “shoulds” of a friendship, and both are interested in getting to know each other on a deeper level. This pair of friends can push each other to explore, travel, and get out of their comfort zone. They’re also honest with each other, and truly bring out the best in each other.
How to Make Friends with a Sagittarius
Be adventurous, brave, bold, and spur them on a little bit. A Sagittarius loves a challenge. Ask them to play you in table tennis, go head to head in bar trivia, or even share something you learned from a recent news article or book and start a debate—a Sagittarius loves to think on their feet and admires independent thinking.
How to Stay Friends with a Sagittarius
Give them a long leash. A Sagittarius cannot be contained, and expressing disapproval or raising an eyebrow at the way they live their lives—especially if what they are doing is simply living outside the box—will make them drop you, fast. Don’t pry into a Sagittarius’ life. They will share information when they’re ready, but grilling them or giving them a third degree will only make them run for the hills. Finally, it’s important to note that a Sagittarius never does things “just because.” You may not get a birthday card, and it’s not because a Sagittarius isn’t thoughtful, it’s that they don’t believe in gestures just because. When a Sag gives you a gift, trust that it truly means something important.
3 Reasons Why Sagittarius Make Great Friends
- Sagittarius inspires and challenges you. Are they fearless? No. They feel the fear and do it anyway, and watching the confident way they trailblaze can help you be more confident in your own life, too.
- They’re intelligent AF. Get a Sagittarius talking about a topic they love, and you’ll always learn something new, and probably step away from the conversation feeling like you want to do a deep dive into that subject, too.
- Honest Sagittarius will never talk behind your back, and if they’re unhappy with you, you will hear from them first. Sags aren’t interested in drama, and a fight will always bring you closer.
Sagittarius Love Compatibility
Sagittarius Love Style
Ruled by expansive Jupiter, Sagittarius is big-hearted, open, and always looking beyond a checklist. A Sagittarius rarely has a “type,”— they are always intrigued by the individual, and don’t make any assumptions about people until they’ve truly met and spoken with them.
Sagittarius loves witty back and forths, but also appreciates the formality of the dating experience. While they are 100% honest in any situation, they love an excuse to dress up and check out cool date night locations. They would much rather go to an under the radar speakeasy than hang out at home, and love impressing you with their knowledge of, well, pretty much everything and anything.
A Sagittarius is honest to a fault, and doesn’t have a lot of patience for tears and emotions. They don’t like what they perceive as emotional manipulation. They fight fair, but once a fight is over, they want it to be done—they do not like past mistakes brought up ad nauseum for days, weeks, or years down the line. A Sagittarius likes laying everything on the table, and some romantic partners may be frustrated by their cool logic, which trumps emotion every time. A Sagittarius expects their partner to continue to learn and grow throughout their lives, and truly seeks someone who they connect with on a soulful level.
Best Zodiac Love Matches for Sagittarius
Aries: Passionate, intense, and energetic, Sagittarius and Aries have a play hard ethos where neither take anything too personally, and are always up for everything.
Aquarius: Independent, passionate, and adventurous, Aquarius and Sagittarius push each other to the limits—especially in bed. The two signs are all about maximum intensity.
Leo: Two fire signs, Leo and Sagittarius bring out the best in each other. Both are in awe of each other’s strengths, and the two outgoing signs also love to entertain and hit the town—no Netflix and chill here!
Favorite Date Nights For Sagittarius
Bring on the reservations, scour Instagram, and hopefully slip past a red carpet or two. A Sagittarius loves to be taken on the town, and the more in the know you are, the better. For a Sagittarius, it’s not just the meal or the cocktail menu. It’s all about the vibe.
Don’t get us wrong. You can bring a Sagittarius to a dive bar, and they’ll be happy, as long as it’s a dive bar no one else knows about. They love seeing the secret, hidden sides of a city or town, and they don’t want to shy away from grit.
A Sagittarius also loves doing the unexpected. A midnight walk through Manhattan, stopping at a diner for pancakes as the sun rises? Sure! A plane ticket to a destination for a few hours on a second date? Why not. The bigger, bolder, and crazier, the better. Don’t be shy when it comes to getting a Sag out of their shell and you will be rewarded.
The Deal with Sagittarius and Earth Signs
It’s common for fire sign Sagittarius to become downright obsessed with earth signs—the sign they aren’t supposed to go for. So why the attraction, and can it ever work?
Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn) speak to Sagittarius deep, innate need for some sort of anchor. While a Sagittarius can be at home anywhere in the world, and always jumps at the chance to take on a road less traveled, that lifestyle can be lonely. An earth sign represents stability and permanence. Of course, this can also drive a Sagittarius crazy, too! A Sagittarius can change opinions and ideas, and believes we are always evolving. An earth sign believes that we are who we are, no matter how old we become or how much everything around us changes. So can this pair work.
In short, yes! The trick is to recognize each partner’s strengths, and stop trying to “change” the other partner. In return, each partner should also be a bit flexible, and realize that maybe there is value in sticking in one place for a year or two. A Sagittarius needs to realize what they may be yearning for in their rolling stone lifestyle, and how they can find it in their earth sign partner. In return, the earth sign should consider the things they can learn from their Sagittarius partner. Why do they need to be so stuck in their ways? What would happen if they were to think outside the box a little?
The one thing earth signs and Sagittarius have going for them is honesty. Both signs truly want to get on the same page, sans emotion, and will often talk for hours until they land on an agreement. The ability of both signs to argue rationally helps them come out on top.
How to Seduce a Sagittarius
If you have your eye on a Sagittarius, get ready and be bold, brave, and don’t take them (too) personally. They may be a bit oblivious when it comes to flirting, and won’t just “yes” you, so you can go on a date. They will be direct and won’t be afraid to point out something you may have misunderstood or misquoted. A Sagittarius is always looking for love, but because they are wildly independent, they want to find someone who can keep up with them and make their lives bigger, brighter, and bolder than ever. They are never, ever looking to settle down. With that in mind, here’s how to seduce a Sagittarius.
- Have your passport ready: Sagittarius can’t resist someone well traveled. Talking about where you’ve been, and where you want to go, is pretty much the best aphrodisiac there is to a Sagittarius.
- Be honest: Like a Sag? Tell them! They will be impressed by your directness, and will also appreciate that you didn’t beat around the bush the way so many people might. They will reward you by letting you know how they feel, too—no games required.
- Do your own thing: Seeing someone go solo to a cocktail bar or a movie screening is an aphrodisiac to a Sagittarius, who loves finding someone who both wants a partner and wants to forge an independent life, too.
How to Make Love to a Sagittarius
A Sagittarius feels comfortable in their skin, and loves the feeling of really good sex. Sagittarius may separate sex from love, and knows that you can have sublime sex without having an emotional connection. That said, sex is important to Sagittarius, and they can’t last long in a relationship if the sexual bond is missing.
Sagittarius loves shaking things up, and may find toys, roleplay, and changing up positions intriguing. A Sagittarius isn’t ashamed of their body or desires, and would always rather try something than not do so. A Sagittarius believes sex can be playful and passionate, and giggling during lovemaking can be an incredibly powerful aphrodisiac that can be even more intense than dirty talk and lighted candles.
A Sagittarius is an incredibly physical lover, who wants to be an expert in lovemaking, which includes being an expert in your body. They want to find the moves that make you moan, and if something’s not working, speak up. They would love to troubleshoot and may seem a bit scientific (what if I touch here, or lick there?) in bed, but it’s all for the end goal of giving you head-to-toe pleasure.
If You Love a Sagittarius Woman
Realize and love who she is, especially if she presents as rough around the edges. Do not tell her what to say or how to act around your parents, for example. She will take offense and will go out of her way to behave in whatever way you don’t like. If you love a Sagittarius woman, be loyal and honest—she would much rather hear that you’re having a crisis or problem from your directly, and getting outside perspective from your buddies will be seen as a betrayal by a Sagittarius woman. Don’t assume you know what she is thinking, and don’t try to manage her emotions—she can manage them for herself, thank you very much.
How to Communicate With a Sagittarius Woman
Be direct, honest, and confront small problems before they become big issues. A Sagittarius woman may appreciate a weekly “state of the relationship” check in, and likes when you share how you’re feeling, especially if you can do so in a way as devoid of emotion as possible (no easy task!) Sagittarius appreciates being able to have a full view of whatever is going on, and likes having more information, rather than less. But just because she’s pragmatic, doesn’t mean she doesn’t like romance. For her, being involved in a plan is better than a surprise; share your thoughts and give her the freedom to make the plan even better than what you might have come up with on your own.
If You Love a Sagittarius Man
A Sagittarius man cannot be pinned down. The more you push him for commitment, the more he may shy away. Give a Sagittarius man freedom and know that will keep him with you. He may want to spend a weekend camping solo, and you must trust he is where he says he is. A Sagittarius man is exceedingly honest and rarely will lie or cheat. That said, know that a Sagittarius man will not stay in a relationship just for the sake of the relationship—or even the sake of a family—and may be the type to bring up the idea of a break. A Sagittarius man wants to see the partner he is with as a strong, whole, independent entity who could do fine without him. Of course, you can and should depend on your Sagittarius partner—that’s the point of a partnership—but don’t depend on a Sagittarius for something you can’t do yourself. He will change your tire because he loves you, but he will admire you if you learn how to do it yourself, just because you can.
How to Communicate With a Sagittarius Man
Separate your emotions from your needs and your talking points. Fair or not, a Sagittarius man may see tears as emotionally manipulative, and may subconsciously begin to tune out if you raise your voice. Sagittarius is wordy, so it may do best to speak in email form, and love letters are also a great way to get to the heart of a Sagittarius man.
Should You Marry a Sagittarius?
Yes! Honest, adventurous, smart, and open hearted, a Sagittarius can truly complement you and make you your best, boldest self. Be ready for adventures, frequent moves, and plenty of hammered out heart to hearts to get on the same page, but trust that you’ve found an optimistic, glass half full partner who can make the world a better place—and together, the two of you are pretty damn unstoppable.
Signs That a Sagittarius Is Playing for Keeps
Sagittarius may seem like there’s only room for one person—themselves—in their life, but when the person is right, they’ll shift to allow them in. Here, three signs that a Sagittarius is playing for keeps.
- They invite you on a trip. Sagittarius prefers to travel solo, so getting an invite is a major deal. Watch how they travel and hang back on plans—you’ll learn a lot watching them in their element.
- They follow your lead. If a Sag has you choose a restaurant, or an itinerary, trust this is a big deal. Sags have very specific tastes, so if they’re allowing you to call the shots, it’s a sign that they trust you.
- They bring you to happy hour. Sags have so many groups of friends, and tend to keep different branches of their lives private. When you become their permanent plus one, whether it’s to a coworker happy hour or to a gathering with their buddies they play pickup basketball with, it’s a sign that they want you in their whole life.
Sagittarius Relationship Red Flags
A Sagittarius will be direct and blunt at all points in your relationship, and if a Sag says they aren’t happy, don’t think they are being dramatic. They mean it. The good news: By telling you, they want to fix the issue and are asking you to help them do so.
If a Sag seems particularly silent, or says they don’t care about what your weekend plans are, it’s a sign they may see themselves on their way out of a relationship. Sags always have an opinion, and if they aren’t sharing it, it’s a sign they may not want to share their life with you anymore.
How Sagittarius Deals With a Broken Heart
Sags truly believe travel fixes everything, including a broken heart. A new environment usually makes a Sag feel right at home. A Sag may find a new hobby or a new house—anything to distance them from the routines they had in their “old” life with a partner.
A Sagittarius may become exceptionally social as well—having plenty of people in their life can help them avoid introspection, which is something a Sagittarius can’t stand. A Sagittarius believes life is long, and is a pragmatist, believing in multiple soulmates, but may need some time and introspection to lick their wounds before moving onward and upward.
The Sagittarius Lifestyle
For the Sagittarius In Your Life
Best gifts: A passport holder, a backpack, or an Airbnb gift certificate. Saggitarius and travel are a cliche connection for a reason. Any gift to satisfy their wanderlust is sure to be a slam dunk.
Best spa package: Pedicure. An active Sagittarius is always on her feet, and appreciates a really good pedicure—maybe with some reflexology thrown in—and a pretty, polished shade of red. A pedicure is one indulgence a Sag will seek out anywhere in the world, and a reflexology treatment is what she needs to stay refreshed.
Best cocktail: Whiskey, straight up. A Sagittarius doesn’t play around when it comes to cocktails. They don’t enjoy sugary-sweet syrups, and like the bitterness a whiskey brings to the table. They like sipping, savoring, and keeping their wits about them.
How Sagittarius Unwinds
Sagittarius needs some solo time to reflect and connect to their deepest selves. This may be by going on a hike, heading to a yoga class, or just spending half an hour in the AM drinking tea and breathing deeply. Sagittarius needs the outdoors and nature, and being cooped up isn’t good for their mindset. A happy, healthy Sagittarius is one who can take deep breaths outside, and who can feel the sun on her skin on the regular.
Sagittarius Social Life
Sagittarius has many friends from many parts of their lives, and prefers interacting with them one on one, or in small groups. When it comes to interactions, Sagittarius sometimes likes to play the “guest star” in different social groups. They may not go to a standing happy hour, but the invite is always open, and everyone is always happy to see them when they stop by. Sagittarius has a few very close friends from different areas of their lives, and tends to keep friendships forever. Sagittarius may not be the best at keeping in touch, but when you are able to reconnect with a Sag it is as if no time has passed.
Sagittarius Favorite Season
Sagittarius lives for slightly chilly cold late spring evenings; the times when dusk falls past nine PM and they can spend all day outdoors. Even though Sags love creature comforts, they find themselves feeling most in tune to their deepest selves while outdoors, preferably sitting around a fire. A Sagittarius loves looking up at the stars, and finds magical moments in the sweatshirt weather of late spring and early summer.
The Best Vacations for Sagittarius
Sagittarius loves exploring all corners of the globe, and prefers to have an “authentic” experience. They may turn up their noses at an all-inclusive resort, preferring to stay in an apartment or rental house to get a real feel of the culture of the area. A Sagittarius hates itineraries and prefers walking and feeling their way around a city. A Sagittarius has great intuition abroad, and loves the time and space to truly explore a city on their own time and terms.
Sagittarius Power Colors
Intuitive, idealistic, honest, and accepting of all different cultures and belief systems, Sagittarius presents a calm, cool, collected demeanor, with a fiery intensity underneath. The best colors speak to both the Sagittarius stoicism as well as the passion that comes from the fire that influences this sign. To that point, here are the best colors for Sagittarius.
Light blue: Like the oceans Sagittarius wants to explore, a light blue is deceptive: Calm on the surface, it hides many mysteries just underneath—just like Sagittarius!
Purple: Sagittarius loves standing out in a crowd, and this royal-inspired color is a great way for them to be noticed.
Red: A fire sign, Sagittarius can’t resist red. Orange is great, too — notice-me colors that pack a punch and make a statement without a Sag saying a word.
Black: Depressing for some, but not for optimistic Sags, who tend to use black as an anchor shade, allowing their personality to shine.
The colors that Sagittarius should avoid are:
Green: This earth tone is so mutable and makes Sagittarius fade into the background. Sagittarius is more drawn to watery or fiery shades.
Gray: For Sags, it’s all black and white. Gray belies the inner beliefs of Sagittarius, who truly think there is a right and a wrong answer to everything.
White: This color feels too pure for gritty Sags, who like getting down and dirty. It’s not as though Sags aren’t “pure,”—it’s just that white feels far too clean and elevated to fit into the realistic worldview of a Sagittarius.
Sagittarius Health & Wellness
Sagittarius Ailments: Back aches and sciatic nerve problems. Sagittarius also controls the reproductive organs, so cramps and other issues are common.
Sagittarius Strengths: Physical strength—a Sag keeps on going, even when others call it quits.
Sagittarius Weaknesses: Pushing beyond their breaking point. A Sagittarius person sometimes thinks that admitting pain is giving up, and will push far past the point of discomfort, which can sometimes backfire.
The Best Fitness Routines for Sagittarius
Fusion classes, like Piyo or Spin and Sculpt. Classes that combine skills keep you interested, and you love pushing your mental and physical limits.
About Those Sagittarius Backaches
It’s not only the oversized backpack they’re likely to wear. Sagittarius often takes a lot on, and may push themselves beyond their breaking point. They may use the heaviest weights at the gym, do a double or triple workout, and may also express ascetism in certain situations —they are the ones who will always take the couch or sleep on the floor. When your back aches, it’s a sign to slow down and honor your body. Your back is strong, Sagittarius, but you don’t need to prove anything, and giving your body a break is a smart way.
The Top 10 Ways Sagittarius Beats the Blues
Always looking on the bright side, Saggitarius is one of the most optimistic signs of the zodiac, and is an expert at elevating their feelings when they’re sad. But sometimes, even a Sag needs some help. Here, ways Sags can beat the blues, fast.
- Hit a workout class. Sporty Sags love moving their bodies, and sweat cures almost anything that ails them.
- Plan a trip. Life is always better an ocean away — or so Sags think. Planning a trip can help pull them out of their bad mood.
- Host a party. Sags are awesome hosts and hostesses, and love entertaining—bonus points if the party is themed.
- Have sex. Physical Sags find a release in having sex, and don’t necessarily need emotional attachment.
- Watch a documentary. Sags love learning, and a documentary can get the intellectual part of their brain swept away.
- Listen to music. Sags don’t often think of this, but music truly can transport a Sag somewhere else.
- Get outside. Nature loving Sags feel good when they feel the sun on their skin.
- Buy new shoes. Sags sometimes have a thing for feet!
- Read a classic book. Sags love nostalgia, and reading a book they’ve loved can help transport them to a simpler time.
- Turn off the lights. Dive under the covers, take a nap, and know the sun comes out tomorrow—or whenever you’re ready to pull the shade back up.
Healing Herbs for Sagittarius mood swings:
sage: When a Sagittarius mind goes a million miles a minute, sage can help a Sagittarius keep track of everything on their to-do list.
basil: Stress? Not here. Basil can help a Sagittarius mind from spiraling, and the herb can be especially helpful in calming a Sag down in a hurrty.
saffron: This vibrant spice can help keep a Sagittarius feeling positive, optimistic, and buoyant, even in the face of adversity.
chervil: A member of the parsley family, this herb can be helpful in respiratory issues, helpful for sporty Sags who may want to perform at the top of their game.
Sagittarius Spirituality
The Best Crystals for Sagittarius: Topaz, lapis, or or turquoise are all great stones to help Sagittarius protect their energy, send out their own wisdom to the world, and embrace transformation, the ability to let go, and the ability to move on.
Sagittarius Healing Mantra: “I am on a path of destiny.”
Sagittarius Spirit Color: A light blue can help offset the fiery intensity of Sagittarius, and can remind them they are always evolving, and that the physical manifestation of their bodies is just one step on an endless soul journey.
Sagittarius Spiritual Side
Sagittarius is intense, searching, and willing to put their mind, body, and soul in pursuit of a spiritual truth. Sagittarius wants to experience spirituality, and fasting, meditating, and singing can all help them be in closer touch with their spirituality. A Sagittarius always wants to believe and find a higher power, but that higher power may or may not be one they are introduced to at an early age, via church or organized religion. A Sagittarius may try a few different religions, or find that their “religion” is going on hikes outside. A Sagittarius wants to live a moral life, and to that end, may read a lot of books by spiritual leaders, committing certain quotes and phrases to memory.
A Sagittarius is often seen as a moral leader, and is looked to in work and at home as an example of the “right” thing to do. A Sagittarius is always honest, and believes dishonesty is one of the worst ways you can hurt a person. A Sagittarius wants to have a life of honesty, respect, and trust, and espouses these values, no matter what they believe.
Sagittarius Karma Boosters
Every sign has to deal with unfinished business. For Sagittarius, it’s learning to consider other people’s feelings. Yes, a white lie may not be “true,” but it may be far better than the alternative. Sagittarius may find themselves putting their foot in their mouth more than they’d like, but these karma boosters can help them smooth over any rough spots with friends or family.
- Give a compliment. You look nice. That was a thoughtful comment. The more you get used to saying compliments, the better, Sags.
- Go along with someone else’s idea. Yeah, the Italian joint your friend suggested may not be the best you’ve had—but could you pretend it is, just once?
- Let someone cry. You don’t love seeing emotion and may want to “fix” things. Just let yourself witness someone else’s feelings. That wasn’t so bad!
- Volunteer with a charity. Sags can sometimes become stuck in their own heads, aware of what “should” change, but not necessarily taking the steps to make the change happen. Be the change you want to see in the world and get your hands dirty!
- Invite others with you. Sags love to go it alone, but sometimes, the best way to experience life is to invite others along for the ride. They might be slower than you’re used to, or you may have to stop somewhere you hadn’t meant, but bringing someone else on a journey is the smartest thing Sags can do!
Sagittarius Career, Money & Success
Sagittarius Career Mantra: “How does this benefit my world?”
Sagittarius greatest career strength: Work-life balance. A Sagittarius may work hard and push themselves to the max, but only because they love their job. A Sag instinctively knows that work can help them live their best life, and works hard so they can also play hard. They definitely use up all vacation days!
Sagittarius greatest career challenge: Feigning interest. When a Sag isn’t interested in their job, it’s tough for them to pretend, and even though they need a paycheck, they can’t fake enthusiasm for work they feel ‘meh’ about. Because of that, many Sags find working as a freelancer or becoming an entrepreneur and making their own hours is their best path forward.
Sagittarius Work Style
Get it done! A Sag loves working on a laptop, and will pull it out in the most incongruous places. Laptop balanced on a treadmill? It’s probably a Sag behind the screen. Sags love independence and thrive when their boss allows them to come and go as they please. They will get the work done, but they like having flexibility.
Sags tend to procrastinate, and are experts at pulling through with a 24 hour miracle project. It’s not that they don’t plan ahead, it’s that Sags thrive on adrenaline and love the high that comes from finishing a project in record time. You can always count on a Sag, but don’t look over their shoulder or ask what their process may be.
A Sag doesn’t necessarily love becoming BFFs with their coworkers, and likes maintaining some professional distance. A Sag hates workplace drama, and prefers to get out of work on time and focus on their “real” life. A Sag is a fair boss who focuses on the work done by others; not office politics. A Sag wants what is best for their employees and knows that is often going home at a decent hour and enjoying their “real” lives.
Sagittarius Dream Careers
Actor: Sags love exploring the full range of human experiences, and gravitate toward acting. Naturally dramatic and outgoing, Sags feel at home in front of a camera.
Location scout: Travel and entertainment combine for this career, which allows a Sag to globetrot to find the perfect spots for movie shoots.
Video game designer: With a robust imagination, Sagittarius is great at imagining an alternative world, and can keep the focus big-picture, giving engineers the specifications to make their vision a reality.
Professor: Smart Sags love lifelong learning, and find that they do well as a professor, both inspiring students and also contributing to scholarly research.
Editor: With a love of words and an eye for detail, Sagittarius is great at shaping books, articles, or films into something even better than the creator of the work envisioned.
Sagittarius and Money
Sagittarius sees money as a tool, and they aren’t necessarily attached to stockpiling money, and don’t put a lot of stock into what they have in their bank accounts. This is a good and bad thing. While it’s great to not be motivated by money, Sags have to eat, and Sags may need some prodding (and an appointment with a financial advisor) to actually get some financial systems in place.
Sagittarius can easily come by money, and know they have a pretty robust set of skills that can always utilize to make money—or start their own business. A Sagittarius can always hustle and step things up when they need to, and may make or lose several fortunes in a lifetime. Because of the feast or famine Sag life, it can be helpful to make sure some safeguards, like investments, are in place, so that there’s always some cash for a rainy day.
If You Work for a Sagittarius Boss
A Sagittarius boss can help make your work shine, but may be wordy, esoteric, and hard to “get.” The truth is that you can’t “get” them—they truly do march to the beat of their own drummer. Once you realize that, and that their head may be up in the clouds, you can do your best work. Help a Sag boss by teaching them how you would like to be managed; they may not suggest weekly check-ins unless you do, but are happy to facilitate that, as they truly believe that it’s essential for employees to find their own path to success. Here, some common Sagittarius boss traits.
Logical: A Sagittarius doesn’t get caught up by emotion, and often will make decisions based on the bottom line or the budget only.
Happy: A Sag boss wants the workplace to be fun, and may set up team building exercises or bagel Fridays to allow everyone to truly enjoy their on-the-clock time. That said, weekends and evenings are sacred, and Sag bosses won’t overstep office hours.
Independent: A Sagittarius boss follows their own rule book, and hates doing things that have been done a million times before. Impress a Sag boss by presenting an out of the box plan.
Thoughtful: A natural teacher, a Sagittarius may want to “teach” their employees, and may go off on a small error for hours. They’re not doing so to drag you down, but because they get carried away and geek out on explaining things to others.
Vacation focused: Unlike some other signs, a Sagittarius wants you to use every drop of vacation time you’re allotted, and may think you are weird or odd if you don’t. Likewise, if you see your Sagittarius boss has an out of office email up, take it seriously and do not disturb them—vacation is everything to Archers.
What Success Means to a Sagittarius
A Sagittarius sees work as one element of their life, but not their whole life. A Sagittarius sees success as having a life where travel, fun, friends, and a well-paying job all coexist, and work doesn’t dominate anything. A Sagittarius loves time off, and hates getting caught in some sort of comparison over how many hours worked. Success is getting work done, getting paid, and using that money to do what you love. Love what you do? Then to a Sagittarius, you’re winning, despite what you may or may not make. At the end of the day, a Sagittarius loves their whole life, and considers a life with plenty of time for relaxation and travel, one that is successful.
Awakening the Inner Sagittarius Owl
While the symbol of Sagittarius is the Archer, in Native American tradition, the dates of Sagittarius align with the owl. Here, how Sagittarius can align with their inner owl for a life that’s even more intelligent and intuitive.
Take a solo trip: Even if you’re in a committed partnership, Sags love having independence, and regularly spending solo time with themselves is a key way for Sags to become stronger, smarter, and feel better.
Read a book: Smart Sags should get in the habit of reading a book or newspaper (scrolling through Facebook doesn’t count!) every day.
Watch and listen: Sags thrive in the spotlight, but they also do well watching on the sidelines, and always learn lessons from seeing how others live their lives.
Teach: Even if it’s not their profession, Sags gravitate toward teaching and mentorship, and finding somewhere to do this can make Sags feel even smarter in their own lives, too.
All of the above are especially powerful in a month that manifests a full moon in Sagittarius!
Sagittarius Parent & Child
The Best Toys for a Sagittarius Child
Cars, trucks, trains. Sagittarius children are entranced with anything that can help them get from point A to point B, and transportation toys ignite their wanderlust.
The Best Activities for a Sagittarius Child
Happy Sagittarius kids love exploring their world, and find nature walks to collect acorns, leaves, and sticks to be exciting, especially if they’re going with Mom or Dad or another relative. Sagittarius loves plenty of hustle and bustle and loves seeing the world—bringing them grocery shopping may seem like a chore for other signs, but tiny Sags love watching the hustle and bustle of the aisles while sitting in a cart.
Books Every Sagittarius Child Must Read
Intelligent, adventurous, and up for anything, Sags love reading from an early age, and often find well-loved books to be like friends. Here, some best books for Sagittarius kids.
The Polar Express, Chris Van Allsburg. The classic story of a boy’s trip to the North Pole will ignite a Sagittarius imagination, allowing them to realize just how magical the world can be.
I am Jane Goodall, Brad Meltzer. A book imagining the life of explorer and primate expert Jane Goodall as a young girl, this book is ideal for small Sagittarius explorers to realize that there is a whole world out there to explore.
The Girl Who Drank the Moon, Kelly Barnhill. Sagittarius kids will love this Newberry Medal winning book about acceptance, tolerance, and never taking no for an answer.
The Best Names for a Sagittarius Child
An intense explorer, the Archer is always looking for the why behind any phenomenon. A Sagittarius may be a future scientist or explorer, so give him or her a name that honors that searching personality.
The Best Names for Sagittarius Boys: Honor his need to conquer the world by naming him after a famous landmark or explorer. Think Everest, Shackleton, or Hudson. Or draw inspiration from the world of science: Albert (Einstein), Isaac (Newton), Charles (Darwin), Stephen (Hawking), and Nikola (Tesla) are good inspiration.
The Best Names for Sagittarius Girls: As with her Sagittarius brother, honor your Sag girl’s adventurous personality. Draw inspiration from explorers like Margaret (Mead), Freya (Stark) or Sylvia (Earle). Or look to women who broke boundaries in the sciences: Ada (Lovelace), Rachel (Carson), or Alice (Ball).
How to Parent the Sagittarius Child
Happy, low-key, and always up for anything, a Sagittarius child can seem both wise beyond their years and innately full of childhood wonder, all at the same time. A Sagittarius child is independent and full of confidence, and the best way to parent may be to stand back and allow them to follow their own interests. That’s not to say a Sagittarius kid doesn’t need guidance—they do, but they love to learn alongside their parents, and pick up if you’re only pretending to be interested by what interests them. Learning to tap into their innate fascination can make life fun for both of you. Are they into dinosaurs? Time to learn everything you can about the prehistoric creatures, and pick up everything from picture books to reference tomes at the local library. The more you model deep and passionate interest in the world, the more your little Sag will, too.
A Sagittarius kid may test your patience, but not because they want to annoy you. It’s just that they have a very clear idea of what they want, and can’t necessarily fall in line—it’s not in their nature. Giving them a wide berth, and giving them the space to safely stumble, is key for raising a successful Sag. It’s also key to speak to small Sags—even toddlers—about the “why” behind a rule. If you don’t have a good reason (ie, we brush our teeth so our teeth stay healthy; we don’t run in the street because we could get hurt) then maybe you might need to question if the rule truly needs to be in place. A Sag appreciates logic, and wants to be the best child they can be. Here, three more ways to parent a Sagittarius.
Hit the road. These little adventurers love traveling and learning about new places and the people who live there. Even a drive to a nearby city to check out a different park will excite them.
Cheer up. Sagittarians are particularly cheery and known for their positive outlook. Don’t be too quick to squelch this tendency with too much “real world” pessimism, and they’ll grow into happy, positive adults.
Give an allowance. With their natural inclination toward generosity and impulsiveness, your little Sag will need early lessons in money management to avoid issues later in life.
All About the Sagittarius Teenager
A Sagittarius teen knows who they are and knows what they want, and their confidence may take your breath away. They are passionate about social justice, and will always stand up and speak out about something they think is unfair. A Sagittarius teen is very intelligent, but may bristle under the rules and structure of school, and may not see the point of doing homework. A Sagittarius teen can often see through the BS of adults, and can be incredibly passionate and idealistic.
It’s important a Sagittarius teen finds their own interests and passions, and support them by giving them the time and space to do what they wish to do. A Sagittarius teen doesn’t need to hear a hollow “good job,” but loves when a parent respects them, allowing them to be a teacher for a bit. A Sagittarius teen is a great role model for younger kids, and a position as a camp counselor can give them the independence they need while being a mentor. A Sagittarius teen usually gets the travel bug early, and may want to go on a trip without their family while still a teen. This is a sign of a parenting job well done! Although they may wander the globe, a Sagittarius teen keeps their family close to their heart—trust that.
A Sagittarius Teen Likes
Nature: A big backyard is a plus for a Sag teen. No backyard? Finding nearby trails and nature walks can be a great way for them to escape.
Tradition: Sagittarius teens may not be traditional per se, but they like the stability of having a family go-to ritual, like going to a certain vacation spot or having pancakes for breakfast on a birthday. As they get older, small rituals—catchphrases, notes slipped under their door—take on more meaning.
Self-expression: Let your Sag teen dye their hair blue and consider their plea for a tattoo. The more you allow a Sagittarius teen to express themselves in an authentic way, the happier they will be.
A Sagittarius Teen’s Dislikes
Bedtimes: Sag teens love burning the midnight oil, and sometimes find an all-nighter produces much better work than trying a slow and steady schedule. Let them follow their internal body clock.
Breakfast. Let them eat the leftovers from last night’s dinner and everyone will be happy. A Sag teen doesn’t see the need to fit food into categories.
Family photo shoots. Skip the matching plaid sweaters and consider candid pics for holiday cards; while Sag teens love family, they hate artifice and may see staged family photos as “fake.”
Sagittarius as Parents
How does a Sagittarius personality mesh (or clash) with their offspring’s? Here’s how any Sagittarius be an amazing parent to any kid in the zodiac:
Sagittarius Parent, Aries Child
Two fire signs, Aries and Sagittarius are intense times two. This can be a great pair, but their blunt honesty can sometimes result in hurt feelings. Both sides need to learn the art of compromise.
Sagittarius Parent, Taurus Child
Adventurous Sagittarius may be bemused by slow and steady Taurus, even while admiring their stubborn get it done streak. Both signs see the bright side of life, and both love adventure.
Sagittarius Parent, Gemini Child
Both imaginative, adventurous, and bold, this can be a sweet pairing. A Sagittarius parent only needs to remember that they’re in charge, and rules are good for their Gemini kids.
Sagittarius Parent, Cancer Child
Sagittarius may feel overwhelmed by their Cancer sign child, who may seem very emotional to stoic Sags. Sags can learn a lot from their Cancer children, but they need to remember to give plenty of space and hugs and remind their Cancer kids it truly is okay to cry.
Sagittarius Parent, Leo Child
These two signs are intense, and understand each other—sometimes a little too much. Sagittarius parents may think Leo is a little too invested in their friends and cliques, and Sagittarius can help show Leo the power of taking their own path.
Sagittarius Parent, Virgo Child
Both incredibly intelligent, this is a great pair when it comes to reading library books and deep diving into research. These signs connect on an intellectual level—stumped by a situation? A book can help bring you closer.
Sagittarius Parent, Libra Child
Both adventurous and curious, this can be a good pair, but Sag parents should be aware that their little Libra can be sensitive, and may take off the cuff comments to heart.
Sagittarius Parent, Scorpio Child
This pair can be intense and dynamic. Scorpio kids have feelings that run deep, and Scorpio kids can get offended if they think their Sagittarius parent is minimizing their feelings. Recognize that Scorpio feelings are big, intense, and real.
Sagittarius Parent, Sagittarius Child
You understand each other better than anyone, for better or worse. You both need to give each other space and independence, and recognize the need of a tiny Sag kid for privacy—even as toddlers, they have a complex, imaginative world and may not always want you invited inside.
Sagittarius Parent, Capricorn Child
Sagittarius parents love the fierce intelligence of their Capricorn kids, but sometimes feel like their Capricorn kids are “too good” and want them to bend or break the rules a little. Helping them learn how to rebel is a fun activity for Sag parents.
Sagittarius Parent, Aquarius Child
Passionate, independent, and idealistic, this is an ideal parent-child match. The only concern for Sagittarius parents is to remember that they are the parent, as it may be tempting to break the rules together—not good for parents!
Sagittarius Parent, Pisces Child
Pisces kids can be intense, and Sagittarius parents need to honor, respect, and learn how to communicate with the rolling emotions a Pisces kid experiences on the regular. Both adventurous, Pisces and Sagittarius child-parent pairs love planning adventures and can even make a trip to the grocery store special.
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