Pisces Sign Dates & Traits
FISH | FEB 19 – MAR 20
CREATIVE, SENSITIVE, ARTISTIC
Element: Water
Polarity: Negative
Quality: Mutable
Ruling Planet: Neptune
Ruling House: Twelfth
Spirit Color: Sea green
Lucky Gem: Moonstone
Flower: Water lily
Top Love Matches: Virgo
Pisces Zodiac Sign
Smart, creative, and deeply intuitive, Pisces can be close to psychic. Pisces feel things deeply, and have incredibly strong gut reactions. A Pisces “knows” things from deep within, and can often judge whether a person or situation is good or bad. That doesn’t mean a Pisces ignores the logical part of their brain, though. Deeply intelligent, Pisces have a profound respect for the power of the human mind. Is it a surprise that Albert Einstein was a Pisces?
Pisces are sensitive, and get along well in small groups of people. Sometimes, a Pisces may feel like they have an internal and external self, and they may need to spend a lot of time solo to recalibrate those two halves of themselves. A Pisces is rarely lonely when they are by themselves, and have an active imagination. Creative, Pisces love spending time reading, exploring or creating art or music, and understanding their emotions through art.
Pisces may seem quiet but they are incredibly strong and have a very strong sense of right and wrong. Their moral compass, along with their gut, guides them well. When a Pisces speaks up, people listen. Pisces tend to take in everything around them, and they are great people to ask for advice on pretty much anything. While Pisces has strong convictions about the best way for them to live, they have a “live and let live” approach when it comes to others, and are accepting and nonjudgmental of all.
Pisces are amazing! Their name says it all:
P for psychic
I for intelligent
S for surprising
C for creative
E for emotionally-driven
S for sensitive
Pisces Greatest Gifts
A Pisces has a great gut and great intuition, which can guide them well, and help them make creative or intellectual leaps other people might not be able to see or consider. Deeply imaginative, Pisces can happily spend hours daydreaming, and are often just as surprised as the rest of the world when the pieces come together in an amazing way. Pisces don’t necessarily work the same way as other people do, and they may be able to get things done incredibly quickly. But it’s not that they’re that much faster than other zodiac signs. It’s that the time they may have been caught staring into space are times that are deeply valuable to them, and necessary for any creative process. The more a Pisces understands how they work and respects that process, the better they are.
Pisces Greatest Challenges
Pisces can sometimes spend too much time in their heads, getting overly wrapped up in a problem and assuming there’s no solution. Pisces are always one of the first signs to lend an ear to others, but when it comes to asking for help—especially emotional help—Pisces can sometimes wall themselves off, assuming that nobody knows what they are feeling and not even giving anyone a chance to try. Learning how to open up can be a huge lesson for Pisces. Of course, the fact remains that no one can read a Pisces mind. Pisces sometimes feels frustrated that they are seen as “more complicated” than their peers, and that feeling can make them act or seem defensive. Pisces needs to learn to let down their guard, allow people to love them, and allow for mistakes to be made.
Pisces Secret Weapon
The realization that life is so much more than what we see. Pisces is in tune with the magic of everyday existence and can find beauty in all situations, even ones that may cause tears. Recognizing these moments of beauty and being able to share them with others is what makes Pisces a creative sign, and is also what makes Pisces a soulful sign.
The 5 Top Reasons to Love Being a Pisces
- Your intuition is spot-on. No need to go on a date. You know that person is bad news from first look.
- Your playful sense of fun. It may not be as obvious as other signs, but you have a childlike view of the world that you can unleash, spending hours happily looking for shells with your kids.
- Your lack of judgment. What other people do is their business, but you’ll always take the time to listen to them and offer your thoughts and opinions—but only if asked.
- Your love of nature. You truly believe we are all connected, and you inspire people with the way you understand the rhythm of the seasons.
- Your cool factor. You don’t care if people think you’re cool—which makes you that much more impressive. You set trends, call the shots, and lead by example, and don’t even break a sweat.
Pisces Friendship Compatibility
Pisces Friendship Style
A Pisces can feel like a great friend—until you consider how much you actually know about them. While Pisces are natural therapists within the Zodiac, they can be cagey about who they are, never revealing their full selves until they trust you—and sometimes, they may never reveal who they truly are. A Pisces can sometimes seem chilly and reserved to acquaintances, and it may seem hard to pull them out of their shell.
Pisces are loyal, but their ultimate loyalty is to themselves. They will only give people in their lives so many chances, and they will not sacrifice their health and well-being for that of someone else. A Pisces makes their terms clear, and will always be who they are in a friendship situation. This can be maddening—for example, a Pisces won’t play nice and head to a restaurant for another friend’s birthday dinner if she hates that restaurant or feels like she’s been wronged there—but remember: It’s not personal.
A Pisces is well-liked, well-cultured, and brings a unique perspective to every interaction. Pisces likes people and likes gatherings, but may sometimes feel exhausted by large gatherings. One on one gatherings or intimate groups—even if the conversations get intense—are preferable to Pisces. A Pisces honors childhood friendships, and even if they feel they’ve grown apart from their earlier friends, will still find ways to keep in touch—as long as that friend doesn’t try to make them abandon their principles.
Best Friend Match for Pisces: Cancer
Both water signs, Cancer and Pisces are intense. They seem to have an almost psychic connection with each other, and can read the air around each other, knowing when the other needs space or when the other’s soul is dying to LOL at a comedy night. These two signs see, respect, and even admire all parts of the other—even the parts that may seem dark and twisty to others.
Pisces and Cancer have deep respect for intellectual and cultural pursuits, and love to challenge each other. Sometimes, the tightest Pisces and Cancer combinations are those who are idealistic opposites—while these two can get in intense disagreements, the respect they have for each other elevates the pair above arguments. They may never believe the other’s point of view, but they can respect it.
Pisces and Cancer understand that sometimes, the best thing you can do for a friendship is give it room to grow, and while both signs have sometimes been known to have a jealous streak, this isn’t the case when these two signs seek out other friendships. They know that you can’t hold onto a person (at least in friendship; sometimes this lesson is harder to learn when it comes to love) and that space can sometimes make you closer.
How to Make Friends with a Pisces
Respect them. Respect goes a long way for a Pisces, and even a comment made in jest can be taken personally by this sign. While this sign does have a sense of humor, it can sometimes take some time to figure out which jokes will land with a Pisces, so it’s best to be earnest until you get to know them. A Pisces is always looking for people that they can connect with on an intellectual level, so sharing a book, film, or music recommendation can be a great way to get to know a Pisces. While a Pisces may seem cagey talking about their inner self, talking about the arts is a great way to understand how a Pisces views the world.
How to Stay Friends with a Pisces
Let them be them—while you stay you. Some friendships crumble over a difference of opinion. That isn’t the case for Pisces, who like when their social circle has wildly divergent views. That said, a Pisces does not tolerate hypocrisy. Doing one thing, then saying another, is a far greater sin to a Pisces than simply doing what you’ve set out to do in the first place.
3 Reasons Why Pisces Make Great Friends
- They’re so tapped into culture. Whether you need the next great designer, podcast everyone’s going to be talking about, or new app, a Pisces has the best recommendations.
- They let you feel. How many times have you heard a friend say “it’s going to be okay,”—when you’re not sure if that’s the case? A Pisces won’t say that. Instead, they’ll let you go to the depths of despair, staying by your side the whole time. In that, they can help you realize that the worst is never the worst when you have a friend by your side.
- They have a unique way of seeing the world. You’ll never be bored hanging out with a Pisces. A Pisces can always come up with fun things to do—even if the two of you have zero dollars between the two of you. Even a Netflix session is made more interesting by the unique perspective Pisces brings to life.
Pisces Love Compatibility
Pisces Love Style
Passionate, intense, and singular, a relationship with a Pisces is a roller-coaster ride that will make you feel your feelings—even the bad ones—and help you emerge as a better, more honest person. Even if a relationship with a Pisces doesn’t last, the lessons you learn from a Pisces partner will.
A Pisces will go all-in when it comes to romance, and expects their partner to do the same. It’s not as if a Pisces is clingy—on the contrary, a Pisces can seem incredibly independent while in a relationship—but a Pisces constantly views the world as if from a split-screen: The world through their eyes, and the world through their partner’s eyes. They’re always trying to make the choices that are the best for both parties, and even small decisions, like where to order Seamless, are made with that perspective in mind.
A Pisces wants their partner to grow, and demands that their partner brings their very best self to the relationship. That may cause some partners to feel like they’re being pushed away, as a Pisces partner will likely say of course they should seek a promotion, more time at the gym, or a goal, even if it means spending time apart.
For Pisces, the physical, spiritual, and intellectual are deeply intertwined, and in relationships, physicality is an important manifestation of love. Pisces can be incredibly sensual when they’re feeling deeply in love, but isn’t a sign that ever fakes anything. Pisces demands full presence in a relationship, and is especially hurt by any sort of deception. A Pisces demands full honesty and gives the same in return.
Best Zodiac Love Matches for Pisces
Virgo: This grounding earth sign can stop Pisces from getting too mired in their emotions, and can give Pisces the stability and “island anchor” the sign may feel they need. Virgo finds strength in the deep, abiding acceptance Pisces brings to the partnership.
Scorpio: Scorpio brings heat and passion to Pisces watery depths, and, Pisces, as a fellow water sign, can get underneath Scorpio’s surface in a way few other Zodiac signs can. This match can seem stormy, but these two signs are good at weathering the challenges of a relationship, and both can fight during the day—and end up entwined in each other’s arms by night.
Pisces: Who better to understand a fish than a fellow fish? This partnership can seem to develop like the moon—faint to see at first, only to be powerful and luminescent a few days later. Pisces respect each other’s space and know each other’s needs, and together, the pair can be incredibly powerful.
Favorite Date Nights For Pisces
A Pisces needs to be in the mood to go on a date, and if a Pisces calls to say they’re not feeling it, it’s best to reschedule. It’s not a blow-off, it’s just that Pisces are ruled by their emotions, and a bad mood can often equal a bad date.
So when the mood is right, where do you go? One sure way to a Pisces heart is to share some of your favorite places with them. Pisces can seem reserved at first, and they often feel safer is a partner opens up first, especially in the early days of dating. To a Pisces, seeing your favorite restaurant or ice cream place is a way for them to play anthropologist, and they will love asking you questions to get to know your likes, quirks, and tastes more.
For the best date, try to split the difference: You bring them to your favorite dinner place, but have them introduce you to their favorite dessert place. And Pisces doesn’t believe in any first date do’s or don’ts—of course, it’s nice to pay the whole bill, but if they offer to pay their share, accept them at their word and agree.
The Deal with PIsces and Fire Signs
It’s common for water sign Pisces to be attracted to fire signs—Aries, Leo, Sagittarius—who can be way too passionate and intense for Pisces. These partnerships often end in duh-rama, so why do they happen?
Well, it all comes down to the “opposites attract” principle. Yes, Pisces is driven crazy by fire signs. But there’s something about their passion and conviction—even if the conviction is short-lived—that is appealing to Pisces. While the passion of a Pisces is often internally rooted and directed, Pisces admires the way fire signs wear their passion on their sleeves. A Pisces will see an injustice and intellectually come up with several options for correcting it. A fire sign will make noise, make themselves seen, and attempt to get that injustice fixed in that very second. That “looking before you leap” line of thinking is infuriating—and pretty captivating, too.
So, can things work out between a Pisces and a fire sign? Yes—but both sides have to be prepared to give a little. A Pisces needs to remember they can’t change their fire sign partner, and a fire sign needs to understand that a Pisces will take their bluster at face value. Both sides may need to learn to calm down, communicate, and give each other space to work things out in their own way.
How to Seduce a Pisces
A Pisces may be prickly on the first conversation. Or the tenth. That may be a sign you’re trying too hard to please them. For a Pisces, the most annoying thing in the world is for you to try to get them to like you. Either they like you—the real you—or they don’t. Don’t overthink and be yourself, but these moves—if they’re moves that you already do—will also be positively received by a Pisces.
Have an in-process book on your Kindle: A Pisces will ask what book you’re reading—and chances are, they’ve read it too.
Let them see your bedhead. Whether it’s diving into the ocean or going on a miles-long hike, a Pisces doesn’t want to be tied down to someone who always cares if their hair, makeup, and clothes are perfectly in place. A Pisces wants to get dirty—and wants to find someone comfortable with getting dirty, too.
Have a POV. Don’t try to fish around for their political beliefs just so it can sound like you’re on the same page as them. A Pisces wants to see the real you, and won’t cut you off because they don’t have the same viewpoint as you. As long as you’re respectful and open to other ideologies, share your point of view with pride.
How to Make Love to a Pisces
To a Pisces, the body and mind are intertwined, and great sex starts with an emotional and intellectual connection. A Pisces needs to feel safe to truly let go and it’s important to talk about their feelings before—and in—the act. With that in mind, talk about how much your Pisces means to you. How incredible their body feels. And make sure both of you have time to wind down with plenty of pillow talk.
A Pisces gets turned on by fantasy, and may or may not want to make those fantasies a reality. Just as powerful to a Pisces, though, si feeling safe enough to talk through some of their deepest desires. Having code names that are used just in the bedroom and lingerie or toys only taken out on certain occasions can also be a great way to connect, as Pisces loves the feeling of having secrets kept only between them and their partner.
If You Love a Pisces Woman
For a Pisces woman, emotions are tied to her deepest self, and all her emotions are true in the moment. Understand that calling her “emotional” will only alienate you—a Pisces woman knows that her emotions may be mercurial, but in the moment, you must understand that what she is feeling is real.
A Pisces woman wants a partner to understand her need for self-evolution, self-identity, and private time. A Pisces woman needs honesty, respect, and transparency. If you love a Pisces woman, commit to having an egalitarian relationship where you will regularly examine, discuss, and decode each other’s feelings—but where going deep will only make you closer.
How to Communicate With a Pisces Woman
Be honest at all times. It’s a concept much easier said than done, but a Pisces woman respects honesty more than anything. A Pisces woman also can sometimes “feel” your mood, even if you don’t voice what you’re feeling or thinking, so being able to meet her where she “feels” you is essential. In other words, don’t say everything’s fine if it’s not.
If You Love a Pisces Man
A Pisces man may seem removed or remote, but he may just be trying to protect his heart and his emotions. The best way to get him to open up is to show your own vulnerability. Share your own stories, invite him into your place. Give, without asking for reciprocation. Of course, you shouldn’t be a doormat, but you should be confident in your own self. Hiding pieces of yourself can make it hard for a Pisces man to fully open up.
A Pisces man needs to move on his own timeline, and trying to deduct his feelings and next moves by reaching out to friends or family or doing a deep-dive into his social media won’t be met kindly. He will feel like you’re spying, and may be even less likely to share in the future.
How to Communicate with a Pisces Man
A Pisces man doesn’t want to play games, and even though a Pisces man may have a jealous streak, stoking his jealousy isn’t a way to win his love. It’s important to be direct, honest, and say how you feel—even if your feelings seem confusing. A Pisces man would much rather hear you’re conflicted than hear everything is fine.
Should You Marry a Pisces?
Yes! Passionate, intense, and incredibly smart, a Pisces will push you further than you thought you could go. A Pisces will give you a unique perspective on life, and a Pisces will teach you that even—especially—when a relationship is challenging, that’s sometimes when it’s most worth fighting for. A Pisces will help you fall even more in love with yourself and your potential, and a partnership with a Pisces will only make you feel more you.
Signs That a Pisces Is Playing for Keeps
Aloof Pisces can seem hard to understand—while it may feel like they know everything about you, it may feel like you know hardly anything about them. But there are a few ways you can tell a Pisces is serious.
- They commen on your Insta. A Pisces tends to keep their emotions—and their social circle—pretty close to their chest. When they publicly comment on your social media feed, it’s a sign they want the world to know that they are with you.
- They spend a night (and breakfast) with you. For a Pisces, an overnight is a big deal. It’s not about being intimate, it’s about waking up the next morning, figuring out a shower schedule, and pulling together breakfast. To a Pisces, those are truly intimate acts, and only reserved for those people they want to be in their life for the long term.
- They say I love you. Yes, this sounds like an obvious sign of affection. But a Pisces will never say this phrase lightly, so when they say it to you, it’s a sign they really mean it.
Pisces Relationship Red Flags
A Pisces won’t stay in a relationship that’s not working, and they’re likely to tell you pretty quickly if they feel like things are off. That said, there are a few relationship red flags to look for when you’re involved with a Pisces. In a relationship, a Pisces will celebrate your accomplishments as if they’re his or her own, so if they’re not asking you about your goals, congratulating you on milestones, or immersing themselves in your latest passions, it’s a sign something’s off. A Pisces also wants to be their best self when they’re with someone they love, so if it seems like they’re slacking off, seem goalless, or seem directionless or unhappy with their own lives, it could be a sign they’re also unhappy with their relationship.
How Pisces Deals With a Broken Heart
When a Pisces has a broken heart, they hurt. They know the only way through the pain is to really feel it, and sometimes, a week in bed, with Adele blasting and romcoms playing on Netflix is the best medicine. Give them space to heal, and don’t offer platitudes. Let them hurt, let them cry, and give them a shoulder to lean on when they need it.
The Pisces Lifestyle
For the Pisces In Your Life
Best gifts: Jewelry. Not just any necklace, but a necklace, bracelet, or ring with meaning is important to Pisces, who sees jewelry as talisman for them, and likes having jewelry to anchor them to people, a goal, or a memory.
Best spa package: A watsu massage. A massage that takes place in water? Sign any Pisces up. This massage therapy can make people feel like they’re back in the womb, and is especially meaningful to water sign Pisces.
Best cocktail: A spiked seltzer. For Pisces, less can be more, and a Pisces may decline a drink. It’s not that they don’t want to have fun, it’s that chemicals can affect their brains and bodies in powerful ways. A spiked seltzer with a low alcohol content can help get the party started for a Pisces without pushing them over the edge.
How Pisces Unwinds
Pisces loves water, and their happy place is the ocean, the river, or even sitting somewhere they can hear the sound of water trickling down a fountain. Pisces also loves nature, and spending time outside each day—even if it’s just a walk to and from the car—is very important in calibrating their well-being. While a Pisces loves spending time with close friends, Pisces also finds it invaluable to have solo time to unwind, either by reading a book or listening to music with headphones.
Pisces Social Life
Pisces has their pick of friends, but tends to prefer a small group. In general, Pisces prefer one-on-one or intimate gatherings to parties, and find that their energy can easily drain if they have too many social engagements planned back to back. A Pisces is great at coming up with fun ideas, and can breathe new life into the same old dinner routine, just by implementing a new rule—only dessert items—or bringing interesting conversation topics to the mix.
Pisces Favorite Season
Moody, mysterious, plenty of time to talk about the mysteries of life under the covers, and a built-in “weather’s too bad, sorry!” excuse to not go out on weekends? Bring on winter. Pisces can find beauty in even the coldest days, and loves how winter gives them time to pause, reflex, and look below the surface.
The Best Vacations for Pisces
Bring on the beach! But forget about an all-inclusive resort. Pisces love finding hidden beaches, lakes, or streams, and will happily hike miles if it means it’s only them—and the people they want around them—enjoying the water. Pisces depends on vacations to recalibrate their internal clock to the rhythm of the universe, and needs to self-direct their itinerary. A Pisces loves to allow their intuition to help them make plans, and they’re not happy if they feel like they have to follow someone else’s itinerary. A Pisces may spend their vacation doing the same things they would at home—same coffee-making routine, same books, same favorite activities—but within the routine is where they can find excitement and adventure.
Pisces Power Colors
Is it any surprise that fish are drawn to colors that reflect the sea? Sure, blue is a no-brainer, but Pisces are also drawn to greens, oranges, yellows, and even tans, blacks, and grays—any color you might see in the sea. While some signs are drawn to primary colors, Pisces love muted palates that may appear differently depending on who’s looking.
Sea green: A greenish-blue reminds Pisces that everything is temporary and shifting, just like the sea.
Silver: Shiny, shimmery, and reminiscent of the moon, silver dazzles in a way that’s more low-key—but no less brilliant—than gold and other elemental colors.
Lilac: Muted pastels, like the color of the spring, speak to Pisces affinity for changeability, while subtly giving a nod to the colors often seen in early spring, the time of year Pisces owns on the calendar.
Gray: Pisces sees the world in shades of possibility, and gray speaks to the perspective Pisces brings to any situation, where nothing is good or bad, but everything is based on how the person in the situation sees it unfolding.
The colors that Pisces should avoid are:
Gold: Glittery and ostentatious, this color can be far too ostentatious and “look at me” for Pisces, who prefers a more low-key persona.
Red: Affiliated with the root chakra, red can be too passionate and intense for Pisces, who like to be more cool-minded and analytical when it comes to any decision in their lives.
Orange: Affiliated with the sacral chakra, orange is similarly grounding and at odds with the ethereal personality of a Pisces.
Pisces Health & Wellness
Pisces Ailments: Need a tissue? Pisces are known to struggle with sinus issues and their bodies aren’t great at going through seasonal changes. Make sure to always have a jacket on hand during transition seasons and pay attention to the air quality in your home.
Pisces Strengths: Pisces knows that their mind and body are connected, and they treat mental health issues as seriously as physical health issues. By staying on top of their emotions and learning ways to cope with any stressors, Pisces can feel better in their mind, body, and spirit.
Pisces Weaknesses: Sometimes, Pisces may be distrustful of doctors or may truly think that any physical ailment can be solved with a positive attitude. Finding a doctor you trust and making sure you voice any concerns regarding medication will help keep you healthy.
Best Fitness Routines for Pisces
Aqua Zumba. Not only is this dance class in your second home, the pool, but the water takes down some of the heat of the workout and makes it fun. Not only that, but you’ll dig the camaraderie and find plenty of workout buddies on the same page as you.
About Those Pisces Foot Issues
Pisces rule the feet, and small and large issues can bring a Pisces to the podiatrist’s office throughout his or her life. Pisces doesn’t like to be constricted, and shoes can be a metaphor for how Pisces feel in the roles they must play in the world. They may feel constricted or uncomfortable. The advice find shoes that fit may sound simple, but it may behoove Pisces to take that advice seriously—and find plenty of places and times they can kick their shoes off and feel free. And pay attention to how your feet feel—getting prompt and proactive care can help you feel more comfortable on both a physical and psychological level.
The Top 10 Ways Pisces Beats the Blues
Pisces may seem moody, but the fact that they’re in tune with their emotions can be a great thing. While others looking at them may think a Pisces may seem overly emo, a Pisces knows that it’s far better to let their emotions out, rather than bottle them up. With that said, here’s how a Pisces can beat their blues and feel better fast.
- Play music. Spotify is fine, but a Pisces also loves unleashing their feelings on a piano, guitar, or other musical instrument—regardless of whether they’ve had formal training.
- Talk to a friend over coffee. Pisces can go deep into analysis—it’s all part of the process. Talking over a problem can help a Pisces decide how to get through it.
- Get their feet in the sand. A Pisces close to water is one happy fish.
- Indulge in a pedicure. Pisces rules the feet, and having someone truly touch and pamper a Pisces foot for an hour can give Pisces the headspace to daydream or problem solve.
- Go on a road trip. No destination in mind, every turn made by intuition. It’s going with the flow, Pisces style.
- Wander a museum. A Pisces isn’t the type to stop and read placards, but just walking solo and paying attention to the exhibits a Pisces is drawn to can give them perspective they may have lacked.
- Write in a journal. Free-writing their feelings is another way to tap into their emotions and emerge on the other side.
- Wander a crystal shop. Sometimes, the right mood is just a stone’s pick away. When a Pisces feels sad, they may need or want a metaphysical ritual to help them feel better.
- Volunteer with others. Sometimes, when a Pisces is in a bad mood, they’re tempted to turn inward, when the best thing for a Pisces is to remove the focus on themselves and look to others.
- Watch a movie. Pisces can sometimes have a hard time concentrating, and it’s unusual for a Pisces to be able to focus on a movie without multi-tasking. But putting down the laptop and watching something can distract Pisces and maybe even allow them to laugh for a little bit.
Pisces Spirituality
The Best Crystals for Pisces: Aquamarine, your Pisces birthstone, can bring you insight, especially when you are questioning your own intuition. It can also unveil underlying emotions you may be harboring toward others, or even yourself. Connecting to chrysocolla can help soothe a broken heart as well as help you work through your feelings and express them clearly in each of your relationships. When you are in need of a spiritual revival, amethyst can calm you down and bring a pleasurable sense of relaxation.
Pisces Healing Mantra: “Nothing is permanent.”
Pisces Spirit Color: Sea green—a little blue, a little green, with some flecks of white inside—reminds Pisces of the endless mutability of the sea. Remembering impermanence can actually help a Pisces feel more in control and anchored to their lives. Everything changes—that is a constant that comforts Pisces.
Pisces’ Spiritual Side
Emotional, intuitive, and a little psychic, Pisces has always been drawn to the unsolved mysteries of the universe. Pisces is uncomfortable with absolutes, and prefers to live in the uncertainty when it comes to unanswered questions about who they are and why they are on this earth. Pisces can be great religious leaders—they see beyond dogma and look to the individual’s following the religion, and are able to communicate well with their followers.
Pisces can sometimes experience a crisis of faith when it feels like who they are is far away from who they want to be, or when they feel like they’re living a life that’s inconsistent with the morals they’ve set for themselves. A Pisces becomes deeply invested in what they do, and to that end, a job, for example, is never “just” a job. That’s why a Pisces who has an immoral or selfish boss can be incredibly demoralizing to a Pisces.
Pisces finds “worship” in all places, and may feel like being outside in nature is what they most need to recalibrate their spiritual side. A Pisces is constantly searching, constantly evolving, and experiences their faith as uniquely personal—they are cautious to share how they feel and would never dream of telling friends that they “should” see the world in the same way they do.
Pisces Karma Boosters
Every sign has to deal with unfinished business. For Pisces, that’s learning to find community and connection with those around them. While Pisces is loyal, they see themselves as individuals in a sea of individuals. Learning to connect is a smart step for Pisces. Here, top five karma boosters for Pisces.
- Invite a friend. Pisces tend to do stuff alone, because adding another person can seem more stressful. Invite a friend to tag along on whatever plans you have—you’d be surprised how nice it can be to do things with another person.
- Be honest. Pisces can be guarded with their feelings, especially when they sense the people with them may not agree with their POV. But learning to share how they feel can lead to important conversations for both of you.
- Indulge in spiritual rituals. Whether it’s meditating or reading a spiritual work, finding some sort of ritual can help ground and center a Pisces.
- Stay in touch. Pisces can become very invested in the current season of their life, but learning to reach out to old friends and stay connected can help Pisces connect with the community they didn’t know they needed.
- Join a group. The idea may seem scary to a Pisces, which is exactly why a fish should try it. It may not be comfortable, but being part of a group can allow Pisces to grow as an individual.
Pisces Career, Money & Success
Pisces Career Mantra: “My Intuition leads me where I need to be.”
Pisces greatest career strength: Detachment. Pisces can care passionately about a project, but they also know that success and failure are temporary. Learning to let go, let things flow, and that nothing can be guaranteed can allow Pisces to change course mid-stream, try new avenues to success, and let go if a career doesn’t seem to be working.
Pisces greatest career challenge: Working in corporate-style “teams.” Pisces tend to do their best work solo, and Pisces may resent corporate culture. One of the hardest things for a Pisces to learn is the chain of command; Pisces often wants to act because they believe it’s right, not because a manager approves it. Having to wait for a corporate sign-off, or having to accept equal billing with corporate “team” members can be ongoing challenges for independent Pisces.
Pisces Work Style
The idea of working in an open-plan office with set hours can make the skin of a Pisces crawl, and because of that, Pisces are much more suited to artistic, entrepreneurial, or vocational endeavors. A Pisces has a strong work ethic, but only when a Pisces believes the work is worth doing. You’ll never catch a Pisces staying at the office late just for optics, and a Pisces may need to learn to play by corporate rules for long-term success.
Pisces can work solo, and loves getting completely wrapped up in a project at hand. Money isn’t necessarily important to Pisces, but they do appreciate creature comforts, and they also appreciate the respect and visibility that money and a title can bring. A Pisces does not want their work to be ignored, and a Pisces will get resentful if a boss doesn’t notice and reward a job well done.
Pisces may have several careers in their life. They realize that nothing is permanent, and also realize that the right career can help lead them to happiness. When a Pisces realizes a certain path is no longer working, they don’t consider it a waste to start from the bottom in a new industry or to go back to school. Pisces sees their career path as being one more way to learn and evolve.
Pisces’ Dream Careers
Pastor: While Pisces may be willing to give up their worldly goods, this career choice allows them to straddle the line between professional and pious. And since Pisces naturally spends a lot of time in reverie, a natural progression would be to sit lost in their thoughts either over prayer or some other daydream. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Therapist, Psychologist.
Boat Captain: Spending a lot of time alone on the sea would be very compelling for a Pisces. There wouldn’t be a lot of distractions, except for the occasional ship going by and they can gaze out onto the horizon, lost in their thoughts, until they turn in for the night. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Lighthouse Keeper, Fisherman, Coast Guard Officer.
Psychic: A psychic medium works flexible hours which bodes well for Pisces need for an unstructured environment. Free to create visions and impressions, they can use their intuition and imagination to gently guide others to their right path. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Career Counselor, Life Coach, Therapist.
Pharmacist: Pisces love to be around and dispense drugs thanks to their fascination with the properties and qualities of substances and their effect on the human body. This career choice will make good money while using this water sign’s natural compassion and concern for others’ well-being. The tough part would be the long, rigorous educational path for a pharmaceutical degree, but worth it in the end. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Scientist, Biologist, Nutritionist.
Mixologist: The intuitive nature of Pisces lends itself naturally to mixing drinks where they are able to use their creativity and combine unusual flavor profiles and turn them into crowd-pleasing cocktails. The perfect setting would be a bar with live music at the beach or a Tiki bar in the tropics. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Social Worker, Sommelier, Perfumier, Lab Technician.
Music Teacher: Pisces is perfectly suited to teaching the foundations of music. In this position they are able to share their love of music, how it inspires them and compels them to learn and practice more. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Musician, Singer, Composer.
Filmmaker: Pisces excels at anything that involves a vivid imagination. In film, they can create another world that is highly real but not necessarily capable of existing. And when working on a project of this nature, Pisces can summon the inner resources to create something spectacular. Think of the work of Spielberg or Lucas to understand what they are capable of. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Artist, Fashion Designer, Textile Designer, Muralist.
Photographer: The unique Pisces vision is brought to life by the camera lens and modern technology has made life even more interesting for this water sign because they can now alter their images digitally. Their artwork can be enhanced through visual effects to create stunning, dreamy images. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Creative Director, Graphic Artist, Cartoonist.
Animator: This career demands a high level of visual imagination, concentration as well as technical knowledge. Concentrating for long hours can be a real challenge but when creating an animation, Pisces are capable of becoming quite lost in the project. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Puppeteer, Toy Designer, Architect, Landscape Designer.
Addictions Counselor: Many Pisces long to help others but first, they must help themselves. If they can face and rise above their own demons, they will have the success working with others to beat their addictions. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Therapist, Counselor, Life Coach.
Pisces and Money
A Pisces can find—and lose—money easily, and may feel like reputation or recognition is far more important than a paycheck. A Pisces can be careless with the money they do have. It’s not uncommon for a Pisces to frequently lose their debit or credit card, or to not bother to invoice for payment. A Pisces’ sense of self-worth is independent of what they make.
But of course, a Pisces is no stranger to reality, and knows that having money can ward off uncertainty and insecurity. Pisces has a deep confidence in their resourcefulness skills, and doesn’t second guess themselves when it comes to applying for jobs—even those that they may not be qualified for. A Pisces also recognizes that they have weak spots when it comes to finances, and often employs a professional to help walk them through financial admin, so they can focus more on their work.
If You Work for a Pisces Boss
A Pisces boss can be tough to figure out. One day, they may seem like your best friend. Another day, they may seem cold. And while it seems like they don’t follow any corporate rules, they’ll bristle if you also seem lackadaisical when it comes to office protocol. A Pisces doesn’t want their employees sucking up to them, but may feel hurt if there are other employees that you seem to like better or be closer with than them. A Pisces says they don’t care about office politics, but may become entrenched in discussing office gossip or scandal.
In other words, a Pisces boss is a contradiction. The best Pisces bosses know this, and engage in management courses to address weak spots. While it’s not uncommon to go through a few rough spots with a Pisces boss, a Pisces boss values honesty above all else. Remember this, and know that a Pisces boss will respect you forever if you well the truth, even if it’s not what they want to here. Here, other Pisces boss traits:
A free thinker. A Pisces doesn’t naturally fit in a corporate culture—even if they are the CEO of that corporation. Because of this, they can sometimes get in trouble with HR.
Intuitive. A Pisces balks at sharing the “why” behind their reasoning. While they can justify anything with a spreadsheet if they have to, a Pisces has incredible gut instinct that rarely lead them astray.
Unique. You’ve never worked with a boss like this before, which is either a good thing or a bad thing. A Pisces boss wants you to be you, just as they are themselves, and won’t try to fit a mold.
Loyal. If you’re honest and do a good job, expect to be rewarded. A Pisces will try to do their best by you. If you do get off on the wrong foot, try to talk through what’s happening in the relationship. It may be an awkward conversation, but it can clear the path to a successful working relationship in the future.
Mercurial. Recognizing that a Pisces’ boss moods rise and fall—and it’s (usually) not personal can be the best way to learn to work with a Pisces boss. Sometimes they need their space. Respect that, and time your visits to the water cooler accordingly.
What Success Menas to a Pisces
For Pisces, success means the feeling of flow. Money is entering their bank account, they feel like they are doing solid work at their jobs. When the flow starts to feel awkward, or it feels like things aren’t working, it’s a sign for Pisces to reassess and make changes. A Pisces doesn’t identify themselves by their job title or the amount of money in their wallet, but if they feel bad, it’s a sign that something isn’t working.
Pisces Parent & Child
The Best Toys for a Pisces Child
Pisces loves small figurines, and can set up endless stories and scenarios with the toys they have. Pisces also loves finding order in chaos, and may have a lot of fun organizing small toys. Artistic Pisces can never have enough art supplies, but even a box is enough to bring out the infamous Piscean imagination. Pisces can get overwhelmed when there are too many things around them, so it’s smart to go minimal when it comes to toys, or potentially rotate toys in and out. Pisces make very emotional connections to inanimate objects, and if they love a stuffed animal, best to buy three in case one goes missing. To a Pisces, this isn’t just a toy, but a very real friend.
The Best Activities for a Pisces Child
Pisces can always find ways to play by themselves, but may need a subtle nudge to learn to play with other kids. Signing them up for different activities—swim lessons are a must—is a great way to let them get to know other kids. Pisces kids love the water, and it’s important for them to have a thorough grasp of water safety. Making sure that they take swim lessons and are always supervised in the pool or around the pool is an essential task for a Pisces parent.
Books Every Pisces Child Must Read
Intelligent, emotional, artistic, and full of imagination, a Pisces child will often read the same book again and again, coming up with new favorite parts of the book. Pisces children are drawn to fair tales and metaphysical books, and love escaping to worlds that are just so slightly different than the ones they live in.
Not Quite Narwhal, Jessie Sima. A picture book about a little creature who doesn’t quite fit in on land with the unicorns � or in the sea with the but finds that going between both worlds is exactly what he needs for his happiness.
A Wrinkle in Time. This classic (read the book before you catch the movie) will resonate with Pisces who may feel they don’t quite belong in this world, and will help them realize the inner gifts that make them unique are also profoundly important to their friends and family, too.
Girl Made of Stars, Ashley Herring Blake. This YA novel, aimed toward high schoolers, explores the ambivalence and mixed feelings that can come when you love someone in your family but hate their actions. A thoughtful read that will resonate with Pisces readers, who rarely see anything in black and white.
The Best Names for a Pisces Child
Sensitive, artistic, and deeply in tune with the emotions of others, Pisces are selfless and always willing to lend a helping hand. Pisces love names that connect them to a tribe, so naming them after family members or important religious or artistic figures is smart. Pisces also love nature, so look to the outdoors for inspiration.
The Best Names for Pisces Boys: To start, picture the sea. Some water-themed baby names to consider: Brook, Dylan (son of the sea), Lachlan (land of the lakes), Kyle (channel), or Wade (crossing the sea). Pisces are deeply intuitive and relationship-oriented; consider a mood-themed name like Asher (happy, blessed), Darwin (beloved friend), or Khalil (friend in Arabic).
The Best Names for Pisces Girls: Pisces are drawn to the water, and your little fish may likely be a swimmer, surfer, or sailor as she grows up. Give her a name inspired by the water: River, Brooke, Darya (Iranian for sea), or Noelani (mist from heaven in Hawaiian). And since friendships are paramount to a Pisces, consider a name that highlights her BFF qualities: Arden, Dakota (friendly one from the Sioux), or Bellamy (fine friend from French).
How to Parent the Pisces Child
Intelligent, emotional, and a little psychic, it’s not uncommon to think your tiny fish is an old soul. Pisces kids can intuitively grasp the hard stuff that makes up life, and they bristle when parents try to shield things from them. Letting a Pisces know that crying is just as natural as laughing will go far in helping to raise an intuitive, aware Pisces.
A Pisces may need some help coming out of her shell and learning how to play. Pisces don’t like the artificial boundary between parent and child, and don’t like when a parent tells them to go play. Be engaged, and play along with them! Pisces children love making up games, and find fun in creating stories, making art, dancing, and doing other things that may not seem like “play.” Pisces children often prefer playing with themselves or an adult rather than a large group of kids. Pisces parents may want to push their child to try to connect with kids their own age, but the more they do so, the more a Pisces may pull back. Pisces like to survey the scene on the sidelines, and will jump in only when they’re ready. Respect the process! Here, what else to consider as your parent your little fish.
Be sensitive. Born under a very expressive sign, Piscean children will need help understanding and navigating their own strong emotions. When these emotions rise, steer clear of shaming or speaking negatively about how they express themselves.
Help them set boundaries. These conscientious little souls love to help those they care about. You can help them establish boundaries early on by watching their interactions with friends and siblings and teaching them the art of saying “no.”
Encourage their creativity. Piscean little ones are imaginative powerhouses. Feed their creativity by engaging them with music and the arts early on. They’re likely to take to creativity like, well, fish to water.
All About the Pisces Teenager
Do not call the Pisces adolescent a “moody teen.” Yes, they are, but they’re not doing it on purpose, and the emotions they feel are very real in the moment. Give them space and time to process these emotions, and let them know as much as possible that no matter how unpleasant or angry they may be, you will always love them. Some parents of Pisces teens can find their temperament hard to take. Remember, this isn’t about you. This is about your Pisces teen figuring out the world around them.
Because a Pisces emotions can feel like a roller-coaster and because a Pisces is intuitive and interested in self awareness, a Pisces teen may benefit from therapy, which can help them better understand themselves and give voice to the sometimes conflicting emotions storming within them.
And it’s not all emo! Pisces teens are creative and passionate about the world around them. Pisces teens may seem to elevate themselves beyond the Instagram drama that may plague their homerooms and be very focused on their futures. Pisces teens are not pressured by their peers, but may have an experimental side because they like to fully understand what other people experience. Pisces teens are honest when honesty is deserved. A Pisces teen does not like when their parents snoop in their bedroom; a Pisces teen will tell their parents exactly what they did on a Friday night as long as the Pisces parent asks directly.
Pisces teens are great role models for younger siblings and will put aside any differences with their parents to act kindly to siblings. A Pisces teen can be trusted, and the more trust you give them, the more trust they’ll return.
A Pisces teen likes:
Philosophy: Pisces teens love struggling with the tough questions surrounding good and evil.
Responsibility: A Pisces teen loves being treated like an adult, and is happy to take on household responsibilities like meal planning, grocery buying, or helping with the family budget.
Social justice: A Pisces teen believes in freedom and equality, and will passionately fight if they feel someone’s rights are being manipulated. It’s not uncommon for a Pisces teen to become involved in community or political activism at an early age.
A Pisces Teen Dislikes:
Surveillance. Don’t monitor her phone and see her room as sacrosanct. If there’s something she needs you to know, trust that she will tell you.
Social media posing. Pisces teens strive for authenticity, and it can be frustrating when they see their peers trying to look good for the camera. A Pisces may play with social media, but they dislike trying to rack up followers.
“You’ll understand when you’re older.” A Pisces teen has a strong moral compass and while they may grow intellectually as they age, they aren’t likely to wildly swing in a different direction when it comes to their viewpoints. They dislike when parents or older people assume they are acting purely due to their youth.
The Pisces Parent
How does a Pisces personality mesh (or clash) with their offspring’s? Here’s how any Pisces can be an amazing parent to any kid in the zodiac:
Pisces Parent, Aries Child
Adventurous Aries can seem overwhelming to cautious Pisces, and Pisces may feel frustrated with Aries “look before you leap” attitude. Gently teaching Aries how to tune into their intuition is a valuable, lifelong lesson.
Pisces Parent, Taurus Child
When a watery fish parents a earth-bound bull, expect some conflicts! Pisces parents can get frustrated with how stubborn a tiny Taurus can be. Learning to see the world from a Taurus perspective can help the duo find a middle ground that works for both of them.
Pisces Parent, Gemini Child
Both imaginative and creative, this can be a great parent-child pair. Pisces parents may need to be a little less abstract with their Gemini offspring and talk to them about how they feel, not expect the Gemini kid to pick it up out of the ether.
Pisces Parent, Cancer Child
Both water signs, this parent-child pair gets each other—maybe a little too well. Emotions are explored, but sometimes a Pisces parent may need to teach their tiny crab that part of succeeding in life is knowing when it’s time to cry and knowing when it’s okay to dust yourself off and move on.
Pisces Parent, Leo Child
A Pisces parent is captivated by their bold, fearless little lion, and tiny Leos learn to slow down and listen to their emotions from their Pisces parents. A Pisces parent will do well by allowing their little lion the freedom to explore and socialize, confident in the knowledge that their laps will always be a little lion’s favorite place to curl up.
Pisces Parent, Virgo Child
Pisces and Virgo can see the world through the same artistic lens, but a Virgo may seem a little too rational for imaginative Pisces. What does this mean for a Pisces parent? Accept that your Virgo may not be able to fully accompany you on your larger flights of fancy, and know that your little Virgo can provide valuable lessons in when it’s time to pay attention to reality.
Pisces Parent, Libra Child
A water sign and air sign can be a great pair, and for the most part, a Pisces parent and Libra child have a great connection. Pisces can get frustrated with Libra’s sense of exacting justice and inability to move on from black and white, right and wrong. A Pisces parent can help a Libra see more shades of gray in a situation.
Pisces Parent, Scorpio Child
A Pisces parent gets their Scorpio child, and can be a great role model to help their tiny scorpion learn to effectively manage and move on from their emotions. A Pisces parent can be a valuable protector and voice to a little Scorpio, and the pair truly enjoy each other’s company—even if they may get into very large fights.
Pisces Parent, Sagittarius Child
Pisces parents are proud of their independent little Sags, but sometimes wonder what is going on in a Sags head and heart. A Sag can seem much more practical and rational than a Pisces, and Pisces may want to help a small Sag learn to balance their head and their heart.
Pisces Parent, Capricorn Child
Pisces parents are in awe of their organized, rational Cap kids—and can learn a lot from the way a Cap sees the world. A Pisces parent will do well not to try to make Capricorn into something she’s not, and Pisces parents may run into problems trying to give a Capricorn kid “their” version of an ideal childhood. Learning to read their Capricorn child’s cues is very valuable for a Pisces parent.
Pisces Parent, Aquarius Child
Both imaginative and intuitive, Pisces parents and Aquarius kids love exploring life together. Pisces parents can help Aquarius learn to understand other people’s emotions and may need to give them a few lessons on how to think before they speak.
Pisces Parent, Pisces Child
A pair of Pisces can be intense, in good and bad ways. Pisces parents and children may have an almost psychic shorthand, but that can cause misunderstandings. No matter how close a Pisces parent may feel to their Pisces child, it’s important for them to remember that they are two different people, they don’t know how their Pisces child is feeling, and that they may experience the same event in two very different ways.