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Aries Sign Dates & Traits
THE RAM | MAR 21 – APR 19
AMBITIOUS, INDEPENDENT, IMPATIENT.
Element: Fire
Polarity: Positive
Quality: Cardinal
Ruling Planet: Mars
Ruling House: First
Spirit Color: Red
Lucky Gem: Diamond
Flower: Thistle & honeysuckle
Top Love Matches: Sagittarius
PERSONALITY TRAITS
FRIENDSHIP
LOVE
LIFESTYLE
HEALTH
SPIRITUALITY
CAREER
PARENT & CHILD
PERSONALITY TRAITS
Aries Zodiac Sign
The first sign of the Zodiac, Aries are the trailblazers. Passionate and independent, Aries will never do something just because everyone else is doing it—a Ram needs to be 100 percent committed to the task at hand. Competitive to the max, the best way to motivate an Aries is to turn something into a contest. Aries will put everything they have (and then some) into winning. Loyal, smart, and impulsive, they always have multiple projects on their mind, and won’t be satisfied until their work, social life, and personal lives line up exactly with the dream life they’ve envisioned. Those who are drawn to magnetic Aries may have trouble keeping up—but if they can, they’ll have a friend for life.
An Aries will always tell you what they’re thinking, with a frankness that may occasionally border on rudeness. But even if an Aries seems overly blunt with their opinion, that’s only because Rams value honesty above all else. And it works both ways. While an Aries may be the first to say if they think that you just phoned in a project, they’ll also be the first to compliment you for a job well done. Rams may also have a short fuse. That fiery temper can be an asset. When an Aries is angry, they’ll never play the passive-aggressive card. But for people who don’t know them well, their temper can be a turn off. Learning how to work out their anger—whether by going to the gym every day, taking some deep breaths, or learning to chill before they Tweet their thoughts to the world—is a lifelong process for Rams.
When it comes to love, Aries are all about initial attraction. They can sense chemistry in the first sentence uttered by a potential partner. Forthright and unabashed, an Aries will do everything in their power to go after someone they want. Sometimes, they need to learn how to slow down and foster long-term connections. Fireworks are fun, but they don’t necessarily make a great match. Aries are amazing lovers: versatile, passionate, and always invested in the moment.
Aries Motto
“When you know yourself, you’re empowered. When you accept yourself, you’re invincible.”
Aries are amazing! Their name says it all:
A for assertive
R for refreshing
I for independent
E for energetic
S for sexy
Aries’ Greatest Gifts
Whether it’s backpacking around the world, launching a business, or training for a marathon, once an Aries sets a goal, they will achieve it. They don’t care what anyone else thinks, and can tune into their intuition and dreams in a heartbeat. Rams never need a plus one—they love their own company, and consider going solo to the movies a rare treat.
Aries’ Greatest Challenges
The world according to an Aries makes so much sense that they have a hard time listening to, much less accepting, alternative viewpoints. Slowing down is also tough. A Ram’s mind goes a million miles a minute, and slowing down for others can be excruciating. But when it comes to maintaining relationships, Aries must learn to adapt and embrace other ways of doing, being, and seeing.
Aries’ Secret Weapon
Strong, adamant, and forged in fire, it’s fitting that Aries’ secret weapon is iron, one of the strongest elements. Weld, cast, machine, forge, temper, harden, or anneal it, iron can take on a seemingly limitless range of shapes and qualities. For an Aries, an iron-rich diet can boost confidence and performance.
The 5 Top Reasons to Love Being an Aries
- You’re the most courageous and ambitious sign, the leader of every pack.
- Your determination is unmatched when it comes to getting what you want.
- You work hard but also play hard—you’re the life of every party!
- You’re easygoing and enjoy the company of all kinds of people.
- You’re impulsive. Sure, sometimes acting first and thinking later is risky, but more often than not, it leads to a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.
Classic (Famous) Aries
Big Sean, Marlon Brando, Charlie Chaplin, Joan Crawford, Leonardo da Vinci, Robert Downey Jr., James Franco, Robert Frost, Lady Gaga, Harry Houdini, Thomas Jefferson, Keira Knightley, Vincent van Gogh, Emma Watson, Reese Witherspoon
FRIENDSHIP
Aries’ Friendship Style
“Activity” is the key word for this sign. When it comes to Aries’ friends, the more variety, the better. Easy to meet and get along with, an Aries makes an incredible amount of connections in a lifetime. Long-term friends are trickier. Only those who are equally energetic and able to keep up are apt to stay connected with an Aries for the long haul. Aries are inspired by action and get bored by too many coffee dates. Think: long hikes, pottery classes, or hitting up an old-school arcade—anything new, offbeat, quirky, or action-packed.
Best Friend Match for Aries: Libra
Just as passionate but a bit more tempered and balanced when it comes to weighing pros and cons, a Libra can help tame Aries’ wildest ideas into something doable, while Aries’ up-for-anything sense of adventure can push Libras to take chances. Fun and fearless, Aries are an amazing match for Libra’s steadier, more rational energy.
How to Make Friends with an Aries
Be direct. A sincere compliment will go far with an Aries and will set the tone for an honest, no BS connection for years to come.
How to Stay Friends with an Aries
Aries aren’t sentimental and may not check in for months. To keep connected, skip the remember-whens and dive into what they’re doing now.
3 Reasons Why Aries Make Great Friends
- Aries naturally have a wide-open view of the world. They view each moment and relationship as a new opportunity to express themselves and gather more life experience.
- Aries’ legendary spontaneity means that you’ll never know what’s around the corner when in their company.
- One of Aries’ mottos is, “Never miss out!” And when you’re by their side, neither will you!
LOVE
Aries’ Love Style
Like their ruling planet Mars, Aries are hot and stormy. They’re a combination of confidence and passion combined with temper and petulance. Everyone who ever loves an Aries tries—unsuccessfully but excitingly—to tame them.
This wildly flirtatious fire sign certainly takes the initiative when it comes to romance. They’re quick to move when someone catches their eye. But to keep an Aries’ attention, that someone needs to be as energetic and as exciting as they are. This passionate sign loves adventure. So don’t mistake an Aries’ restlessness for boredom. It’s not a signal that they’d prefer to be somewhere else (or with someone else). It’s a signal they want to pick up the pace!
Whirlwind romances are common for the Aries personality. But once love sets in, it’s generally for life. As long as there’s plenty of spice and excitement to keep the blood pumping, the relationship will be strong and long lasting.
Best Zodiac Love Matches for Aries
Gemini: Smart, mysterious, and up for anything, Gemini’s deep personality keeps Aries endlessly intrigued, while Gemini loves Aries’ no-holds-barred approach to life.
Libra: Balanced and low-key, Libra can rein Aries in, encouraging them to reflect on their deeper self, which can sometimes be hard to do on their own.
Sagittarius: All about action and honesty, Archers are a true passion match for Aries. Fights will likely be stormy, but since both signs are honest, they’ll at least know where the other stands.
Taurus: Aries often sees Taurus as tame and can get exasperated by the Bull’s rational, consider-all-points approach to life. But if Aries can get past that, they may just find a match that will show them how good (and steamy!) slow and steady can be.
Favorite Date Nights For Aries
Aries love long dates—cocktails followed by dinner, a nightcap, and a long, sleepless night in bed. Passion reigns supreme for an Aries in love, and cuddling on the couch, which sounds cozy to some, sounds less than ideal to an Aries.
The Deal with Aries and Water Signs
It’s common for fiery Aries to become downright obsessed with water signs—the sign they aren’t supposed to go for. So why the attraction, and can it ever work?
Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) offer Aries a reprieve from all their heat. This equally intense yet different element can feel so good, but usually the pleasure is fleeting and can be downright damaging if Aries stays immersed in it too long. After all, water puts out fire.
But it can work! The trick is that one partner cannot dominate the other. A little water on Aries’ flames can actually create a delightfully steamy experience, and likewise, Aries keeps their water sign warm. The two can make each other even better by combining forces in intelligent ways. Just remember: Work together, do not compete!
How to Seduce an Aries
If you have your eye on an Aries, have a good plan in mind to capture their heart. Aries are all about options, and this captivating sign often has many admirers. It may take awhile for them to realize you’re serious, and by the time they do, you may have already lost them. Here’s how to make this quick and playful sign stand still long enough to fall for you:
- Crank up your flirting game: This wildly flirtatious fire sign takes the initiative in romance, and they want you to do the same. Even if you’ve been involved for years, a steamy Snap can go a long way in ensuring you’re still both on lock down.
- Always be up for adventure: Don’t get too comfortable on the couch. A restless sign, Aries always wants to explore. Discover fun and free things to do in your area, and get out of the house.
- Talk yourself up: Aries are wildly addicted to confidence. Casually mentioning just how hot you look as you head to the car before a date isn’t bragging, it’s true—and it’ll make an Aries want you even more. While Aries love to take the lead in everyday situations, they are beyond carnally attracted to confidence and they love letting a partner take the lead. Play a game of pool with an Aries, and make it your point to win.
How to Make Love to an Aries
Shamelessly flirty, sexy, and daring, Aries is one of the wildest signs in bed—and the best way to get them there is to focus on the body part ruled by Aries: the head.
During foreplay, an Aries man loves a gentle but firm kiss on his eyelids or forehead, or even a scalp massage. A female Aries loves having her hair played with, as well as being touched on the back of her neck and whispers in her ears.
Try handcuffs or blindfolds—sensory deprivation done right can feel super sensuous to Rams. And don’t be shy. While missionary-style sex is sweet, an Aries wants you to up the ante. Impress them by saying exactly what you want, and they’ll go wild. Skip the stuffy candlelit dinner and suggest an outdoor quickie.
If You Love an Aries Woman
Give her plenty of room. For her, just-because check-ins read as controlling, not sweet. And while she loves spending time with you, it’s very important to her that she maintains her sense of self. If she’s always spent the weekends mountain biking, don’t expect her to be happy when you announce you’ve bought your own bike and would love to join her. Spending a few hours apart on Saturday will only make your time together more passionate.
How to Communicate With an Aries Woman
Keep things honest. She would much rather hear what’s going on in your head than listen to platitudes about how great she is. An Aries woman always wants the best in everything and will never stop striving. Be a sounding board, offer (honest!) advice when asked, and don’t expect her to choose between you and a project. An Aries woman has laser-like focus, and it’s impossible and unfair to ask for her attention when she’s working on a project she’s passionate about. Know that, eventually, the attention will come back to you. If you’re feeling ignored, tell her. Don’t react passive-aggressively—that’s one of her pet peeves.
If You Love an Aries Man
An Aries man may seem like he’s unwilling to commit, but he actually believes in true love and the ideal relationship. He’s also ultra-picky and committed to the thrill of the chase. Be patient with his dating process. It may take awhile for him to commit, but once he does, he’s 100 percent invested. Don’t wait around for him, though. Aries men love competition, so if you’ve just started dating, feel free to keep seeing other prospects. He’ll want to show you that he’s the best. When it comes to plans, he likes taking the lead. So let him take it occasionally, but flip the script and come up with your own itinerary. He’s impressed when someone shows they can keep up with him and aren’t afraid to go head-to-head with his naturally dominant personality.
How to Communicate With an Aries Man
Keep serious conversations IRL. Texts, which can be misread, can lead to a lot of drama when your partner is an Aries. And respect honesty. If you ask for an opinion, don’t get angry if it contradicts what you hoped he would say. Of course, you should do the same for him. Aries respect honesty above all else, and they’re especially turned off by hollow compliments or pats on the back that aren’t well deserved.
Should You Marry an Aries?
Yes! An Aries will constantly keep you on your toes, but you’ll always know exactly where you stand. No mind games here. And even though the dating period may have its ups and downs, especially when it comes to balancing independence with couple time, once an Aries choses to commit, they’ve chosen for life.
Signs That Your Ram Is Playing for Keeps
Independent Aries may seem like they’re aloof, but these three subtle signs show that they see you taking a very important part in their lives:
- They invite you to meet the family. Even though Aries tend to love and be very close to their family of origin, they don’t invite just anyone to a backyard BBQ. When they let you in, it’s a sign that they see you as someone they could settle down with.
- They talk about their career plans. Ultra-ambitious, when an Aries asks your opinion about their career trajectory, it’s a sign not only that they value your opinion, but that they’re also thinking about how your own five-year plan will factor in.
- They invite you on a trip. Lie on the beach? Never. When an adventurous Aries invites you on vacation, it’s a sign that they’re sussing out whether you can keep up.
Aries Relationship Red Flags
It’s usually hard to get a word in edgewise with talkative Aries, or to keep up with one when they’re busy. They do first and rest later (if ever). However, if your Aries partner is suddenly spending all day vegging on the couch or playing video games… Houston, we have a problem! Unless they are insistent on you being cuddled up by their side, a couch-potato Ram is an unhappy-in-love Ram.
Aries isn’t a good liar, so you’ll either know exactly what the problem is, or they’ll just walk away with a nasty a backward glance. It’s harsh, yes, but it was fun while it lasted, wasn’t it?
How Aries Deals With a Broken Heart
When Aries get dumped and brokenhearted, they might just go nuts! Like someone having a mid-life crisis, they might buy a boat and invite every single crazy partier they know for a week of indulgence, or they might just hook up with every single hottie that crosses their path.
Alternatively, Aries might do every single crazy or adventurous activity they used to fantasize about with their ex, just to prove that they don’t need them for that Machu Picchu hike. To each their own, Aries.
LIFESTYLE
For the Aries in Your Life
Best gifts: Yoga mats, cool sneakers, an amazing sweatshirt that combines style and leisure. Aries do love getting physical.
Best spa package: Cupping or acupuncture. All about intensity, Aries love cutting edge treatments.
Best cocktail: A prickly pear margarita or any brightly colored cocktail that doubles as an accessory. For Aries, it’s all about the presentation.
How Aries Unwinds
Rams only have one speed, and it’s fast. So when it comes to unwinding, Aries are happy doing their own ambitious thing. A leisurely 12-mile run, a parasailing adventure, or taking the NaNoWriMo challenge to write a novel in a month all sound good to Aries. Aries also loves to relax, but even that will be intense. A Ram’s idea of a power nap can be a full day of deep slumber.
Aries’ Social Life
Sometimes a Ram is all about socializing and thinks nothing of sparking conversations with strangers or booking a solo trip to meet people along the way. Other times, the Ram can be reclusive, getting lost in a book or the wilderness, or taking up a hobby that they’ll challenge themselves to master in a weekend.
Aries’ Favorite Season
Even though Aries are born in early spring, they’re all about the anything-can-happen vibe of summer. An action-packed Fourth of July weekend is pretty much heaven for an Aries. It’s all about making the most of every single second, which is why they thrive on the long days of summer, when they can run from the gym to their job to an al fresco dinner, all before nightfall.
The Best Vacations for Aries
Adventure travel is a Ram’s thing. Whether it’s an organized surf camp or a solo backpacking adventure, Aries loves the adrenaline rush that comes with travel. In fact, a Ram prefers to go without reservations, simply because they love feeling the accomplishment of finding a hotel on the fly. Thriving on challenges, an Aries loves a vacation that helps them accomplish a goal, hone a skill, or practice self-improvement. While they’re happy sitting on the beach for a bit, you’re much more likely to catch them dashing in and out of the waves for hours on end.
Aries’ Power Colors
Aries wants to success in everything: business, friendship, and love. The colors that empower the ambitious Ram are:
Red: Aries are all about success, and this color cranks up their confidence for even the most nail-biting scenarios.
Pink: There’s a time and place for everything, including Aries’ fiery spirit. Pink can temper that intensity, so it’s a perfect color for Aries to wear on a first date.
Orange: Confident Aries can pick orange to let their natural light shine even brighter during large social events.
Yellow: Although outgoing, Aries can sometimes be close-lipped about their internal emotional life. Yellow can help Aries open up emotionally, both to others in conversation and to themselves.
The colors that Aries should avoid are:
Black or white: These two shades suggest an anchoring that’s at odds with Aries’ wanderlust.
Dark blue: Staid and traditional, dark blue doesn’t bring out Aries’ vivacity, and may make them feel awkward.
Gold: A natural in the spotlight, gold can feel and look too showy on an Aries.
HEALTH
Aries Health Problems & Fitness
Aries’ Ailments: Headaches
Aries’ Strengths: Energy
Aries’ Weaknesses: Green juice, trendy diets, and too-good-to-be-true miracle cures. Even though Rams know that there’s no quick fix, they can’t resist any product that claims to give them an edge over other people.
The Best Fitness Routines for Aries
Aries are all about living it up every single moment and rarely have a shortage of energy. Aries can frequently be found at the gym, which they truly think of as a happy space. Generally healthy, Aries know how to indulge when the time is right but can feel lethargic and blah if they abstain from physical activity for too long.
About Those Aries Headaches
Ruled by the head, Rams experience frequent headaches, so it’s important for them to learn how to add R&R to their wellness routine. Rams aren’t good at resting, but downtime can curb a headache before it starts. They should also make sure to drink water—because in their quest to be the best, Rams may skip this step at the gym. Finally, Rams honestly must get regular medical check-ups. Feeling unwell isn’t a failure, and booking an appointment can keep a Ram in top-notch shape for their go-go-go lifestyle!
The Top 10 Ways Aries Beats the Blues
Driven and impatient, Aries is a sign that wants to nix the blues as soon as they appear. Luckily, it takes no time for the Ram to rise back to the top. Here are the best ways for an Aries to bounce back:
- Make a list of all their successes—it’ll be a long list!
- Watch back-to-back action movies or crime dramas that amp up the adrenaline.
- Sweat at the gym.
- Dress up and go out. Independent Rams don’t need a party. They make a party.
- Emailing a role model? Jumping out of a plane? Whatever Aries may fear, facing it is a guaranteed way to feel better.
- Get work done. They’re not workaholics, but work genuinely excites them. Spreadsheets on a Saturday night? Why not!
- Have a game night. Aries loves board games (as long as everyone is actually trying to win).
- Send a funny Snap to a friend. Even though it’s not as immediately apparent as their other traits, Aries’ sense of humor has to be stoked on the regular.
- Start a bonfire, a fireplace fire, or watch a fire app on TV. Flames can soothe the soul of this fire sign.
- Get a scalp massage! Ahh, now that feels good!
Healing Herbs for Aries’ Intensity
Rosemary: Stimulates the body and mind and improves memory; key for an Aries with a million things on their mind.
Cayenne: Helps cleanse the digestive system and improve circulation; key for Aries’ intense lifestyle.
Garlic: Either cooked or in tea, garlic fights infections and reduces cholesterol and blood pressure in a stressed-out Aries.
Powdered mustard: An ancient symbol of faith, mustard can help keep Aries grounded.
SPIRITUALITY
Aries Spirituality
The Best Crystals for Aries: Carnelian will crank up an Aries’ confidence and help counteract any self-doubt they might feel before a major decision.
Aries’ Healing Mantra: “I forgive myself, I accept myself, I love myself.”
Aries’ Spirit Color: This fire sign is all about red, which can release their passion, confidence, and heat in tense situations.
Aries’ Spiritual Side
Aries are passionate, idealistic, and occasionally frustrated when the world doesn’t live up to their (sometimes unrealistic) expectations. As a sign that likes action, Aries can have trouble sitting still and may lose patience when they attempt meditation. It’s key to remember that moving meditation—biking, swimming, surfing—can connect them just as intensely to their inner self. A searcher who is OK with bucking tradition, an Aries may try a few (or zero!) religious practices, and is unlikely to go along with something just because everyone else does. Even if their loved ones have the same spiritual beliefs, an Aries will stray from the path if that belief doesn’t line up with their own. A fierce sense of social justice and a strong moral compass guides Aries’ decisions. Rams may be impulsive, but they’re never mean. Aries love learning and love hearing about different religions and spiritual practices.
Aries’ Karma Boosters
Every sign has to deal with unfinished business. For Aries, the biggest life lesson is learning what it means to be selfless. This can take a lifetime, but Aries has to start somewhere. Here are a few first steps that any Aries can take towards clearing their karma:
- Learn to lose once in awhile. Try letting someone else win on purpose in a no-stakes game, just to see that the world won’t end.
- Value other people’s time. Stop being late, Aries. Period.
- Feel happy for someone else’s success. Practice saying, “I’m so happy for you.”
- Consider other people’s feelings. Before speaking, imagine how the words will sound.
- Help someone else without taking credit for it. Kindness feels great. Isn’t that enough?
CAREER
Aries Career, Money & Success
Aries’ Career Mantra: “I’ve got this.”
Aries’ greatest career strength: Leadership. Everyone naturally looks to Aries, and being responsible for others comes naturally.
Aries’ greatest career challenge: Delegating. Learning how to trust the team is key for Aries.
Aries Work Style
Career is the area of life where Aries is apt to shine the brightest. Ambitious, creative, and often driven by the need to be the best they can be, the Ram is at their best in the workplace. Born leaders, Aries are far more comfortable taking charge than taking orders. They thrive as a manager and will often find their colleagues coming to them for advice.
Some signs struggle with change, but Aries initiates it. Getting a project underway is what gets them up in the morning, but tying up loose ends, checking off punch lists, or maintaining the status quo? No, thanks.
Aries’ striving, competitive nature can lead to friction at work, so it’s important for the Ram to remember they they’re part of a team. In fact, the sign benefits greatly from working with others. And while it’s true that they don’t need the help of others to kick-start a project, Aries’ greatest power comes from their chemistry with co-workers, who in return benefit from their infectious energy.
Aries’ Dream Careers
Investment banker: Managing money pays off for Aries. Their analytical mind is good with numbers, and their thrill-seeking side allows them to try potentially risky moves that (usually) end up paying off.
Surgeon, doctor, or nurse: Aries’ nerves of steel pay off big-time when it comes to life or death matters. Although Aries are warm to patients, they’re pros at sidelining their emotions when it counts. They don’t get attached, which can help them succeed in a career that could otherwise be emotionally draining.
Entrepreneur: Aries’ confidence can help them manifest big ideas, but they may need help bringing those ideas to fruition. Because Aries is all about action, they sometimes experience a dip in energy when a project stalls or there’s some red tape blocking the way. Finding a detail-oriented business partner, like Virgo, is key in making sure that the small stuff gets taken care of while Aries looks at the big picture.
Producer: Aries’ leadership abilities make them great at pulling multiple teams together to work on one project. Their ability to see the big picture can help get a major project off the ground, and their sociability means that they can charm people into backing any creative project they dream up.
PR Exec: Aries love the idea of juggling multiple projects at once, and working on a few things at a time with a revolving door of clients means that things never get old. And when they say they can get something done, they mean it.
Aries and Money
Even though an Aries is wise to save for a rainy day, this isn’t likely the case. Because Rams prize excitement, shopping, gambling, and playing the market are far more appealing to them. They aren’t too focused on their financial future. In fact, living for the moment is the true Aries philosophy. Money is rarely scarce because they love working, but it can be spent almost as quickly as it comes in. The one thing you can be absolutely sure of is that Aries will have as much fun making as much money as they possibly can!
PARENT & CHILD
Aries Parent & Child
The Best Toys for an Aries Child
Blocks, bikes, and balls. On the go and independent, Aries kids love activities they can do themselves and physical toys that let them work up a sweat.
The Best Activities for an Aries Child
Known for their physical prowess, Aries kids also love the challenge of an intellectual activity. If they’ve already spent hours on the playground (an Aries favorite) pull out the puzzles. They’ll enjoy the intellectual challenge of getting them done.
Books Every Aries Child Must Read
Aries kids love books about perseverance and strength. Always analytical, an Aries child will bypass intense fantasy for books with a lesson they can use in their everyday life. Some examples:
The Little Blue Truck by Alice Shertle. The story of one small truck’s domination over a large truck will appeal to the Aries kid’s scrappy side.
Oh, The Places You’ll Go by Dr. Seuss. Every Aries child will enjoy the reminder that you can be anything you want to be.
The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins. Ambitious, intense, loyal: Katniss Everdeen must be an Aries, and Aries children will love this story of bravery against all odds.
The Best Names for an Aries Child
Energetic, in control, and leaders before they even learn to crawl, Aries need names that connote strength, ambition, and drive. Another way to think about it: What name do you want to be calling out on the playground? Because you’ll be doing it a lot as fearless Aries tests all boundaries.
Names for Aries boys: Think short, one-and-two syllable names that have withstood the test of time, like Michael, Max, or John. Other options, if you like a more out-of-the-box approach: names that can be traced to great warriors or leaders of the past, like Alexander, Jax (Jason), Moses, or Mohammed.
Names for Aries girls: Gender-neutral names like Alex, Taylor, Harley, or Maddox beautifully suit Aries girls. Another way to pick your baby Aries name: Imagine her occupying a C suite 30 years down the road. She’ll grow into the name Katherine, even if it seems “big” now. Or consider names that literally mean leader, like the Hawaiian Ailani, the Hebrew Alufa, or the Greek Athena.
How to Parent the Aries Child
Sociable, curious, and smart, an Aries child is a natural leader on the playground and has plenty of ambition and motivation to become whoever they want to be. As a cardinal sign, Aries children are natural decision-makers who thrive on responsibility, so let them choose which sweatshirt to wear or which book to read at bedtime. Always on the go and energetic, Aries are fearless—you’ll be holding your breath as they try one daredevil trick after another on the playground. Channeling that energy into plenty of activities is key for keeping an Aries child happy.
As an Aries grows up, they may try to solve everything themselves instead of heading to you for the answers. Let them know you’re there for them, but respect their space. Frequent “How are you doing?” check-ins are likely to be met with annoyance. However, Aries kids thrive on action. If they’re working on a project, sitting down to help them finish it can be tremendously motivating, as one key lesson for the adolescent Aries is starting what they finish.
Here are more tips for parenting an Aries child:
Keep your energy high. Move over, Mom and Dad—this little fire sign will keep you on your toes! Although you’ll probably never be able to match their energy level, try to meet them halfway with enthusiasm and encouragement.
Challenge them. Although characterized by the Ram, Aries are not all brawn. These children are also intellectuals, and their physical gusto will translate just as easily to cerebral pursuits and interests.
Feed their need to compete. Make sure your Aries child has the opportunity to win and take center stage—they love it. Involve them in sports and other competitive activities where they will be encouraged to keep striving.
All About the Aries Teenager
As Aries hit their teens, they establish themselves as the leaders they were born to be. It’s tumultuous for everyone, but the key is to let an Aries teen lead, even if they’re young. Giving them tasks, like laundry, food prep, or taking care of younger kids, gives them a sense of purpose. So do summer jobs or internships, where they can flex their skills and meet people who see their positive traits. Boundaries are key for an Aries—they’re going to push them anyway, so it’s necessary to have some firm ones in place. Aries may seem independent and aloof, but they still want to know just how important they are to your family. While not the cuddliest sign, telling them “You’re great,” “I’m proud of you,” and “I love you just the way you are” will go a long way. An Aries teen may not introduce you to their friends, but it’s not because they don’t love you. They just need to establish their own identity beyond the family. Avoid digging for information. An Aries will naturally share important info, but asking too much may seem nosy to them. Keep the focus on your teen and their accomplishments, and they’ll slowly share details about their daily life.
An Aries Teen’s Likes
Ownership: Put them in charge or give them a lot of responsibility.
Trial and error: They might fail, but they need to try.
Being respected: Treat them like an adult without holding them to all the same standards. If they accidentally scrape the car, give them a pass, and know that it will never happen again.
An Aries Teen’s Dislikes
Ridicule: They hate being teased or having others make light of something serious.
Lack of honesty: They resent being punished for telling the truth or being “too blunt.”
Restrictions: They’re irritated by long waits, strict rules, and being forced to finish everything they start.
Aries as Parents
How does an Aries’ personality mesh (or clash) with their offspring’s? Here’s how any Aries be an amazing parent to any kid in the zodiac:
Aries Parent, Aries Child
Spontaneous and adventurous, you and your child are both headstrong, in charge, and always want to do your best. As your kid gets older, they may test boundaries. Remember that “winning” this kind of fight doesn’t matter as much as growing because of it.
Aries Parent, Taurus Child
A little bull will test the patience of any Aries. Taurus kids take their time and like routine while Aries like to go with the flow. A give and take relationship is key. Remember, Aries: It’s not slowing down, it’s taking your time.
Aries Parent, Gemini Child
Both up for anything, Aries parents and Gemini children are two adventurous soulmates. But sometimes, all that go-go-go means missing out on lazy couch cuddling. Regularly factoring in emotional check-ins is key for a strong connection.
Aries Parent, Cancer Child
Sensitive and soulful, a Cancer kid’s natural connection to their emotions can help an Aries parent tune in more deeply to their needs. Meanwhile, Aries can always lift Cancer’s spirits and teach them to not take life so seriously. But an Aries parent needs to let a Cancer child express their emotions. An Aries parent doesn’t need to fix everything. They just need to listen.
Aries Parent, Leo Child
Confident, proud, and brave, a little Lion has a lot in common with an Aries parent—at first glance. The pair will enjoy plenty of adventures, as long as Aries parents recognize their Leo child’s sensitive streak. Leos don’t love teasing, and an Aries’ gentle ribbing might be taken seriously, so tread lightly with the humor.
Aries Parent, Virgo Child
Patient, rational, and logical, a little Virgo is excited and inspired by Arian energy and learns best by watching their parents do their thing. Whether it’s going down the slide or jumping into the pool, a Virgo will happily follow. Aries parents need to let Virgo kids do things at their own pace, because they don’t like being told what to do, especially when it seems like an arbitrary decision. Which PJs to wear to bed? Honestly, why should that matter?
Aries Parent, Libra Child
A little Libra is in awe of the way their Aries parent says exactly what they think, and you know they’ll learn a lot from it. While the Aries parent must be honest with their young Libra (they can sense dishonesty), enveloping criticism in plenty of praise is key. Libra kids are up for anything, but they may do things because they want to please an Aries parent. Rams should let them know that it’s OK to follow their own path.
Aries Parent, Scorpio Child
Both intense and passionate, Aries parents and Scorpio children will have the closest bonds and the biggest fights. Luckily, both signs are anchored in honesty. A little Scorpio is incredibly in touch with their emotions, and it may take some slowing down, tuning in, and listening for an Aries parent to understand what a Scorpio child is going through.
Aries Parent, Sagittarius Child
These two constantly seeking signs are a great parent-child match. While both Aries and Sagittarius crave stimulation, Ram parents should remember their little Archers love flexing their mind and their muscles. Reading books together, heading to a museum, or painting can be great ways to connect.
Aries Parent, Capricorn Child
Both driven and both leaders, an Aries parent may see much of themselves in their Capricorn children. However, while Aries are often driven by instinct and intuition, Capricorns love to observe and plan before making a move, which may frustrate an Aries parent. They will make that move eventually, so let Capricorn kids do it on their own timetable.
Aries Parent, Aquarius Child
Both signs are social, so Aries parents are never at a loss finding playdates for their Aquarius kids. While Aquarians are naturally confident, they may not see their gifts as readily as an Aries parent does—noticing them and helping an Aquarius kid make the most of them (by enrolling them in dance classes, for example) is key, as Aquarians may not have the drive to do it themselves.
Aries Parent, Pisces Child
An Aries parent pushes a Pisces kid out of their comfort zone, which is a great thing because it exposes little Fish to things that they may not have tried on their own. On the flip side, Pisces kids can seem overly sensitive to Aries parents. Being aware that a Pisces isn’t faking and that any tears or fears are real will go a long way toward understanding.
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